Questions: Relationships

The title says it all, so are guys REALLY stronger than girls, and are guys THAT much stronger? So we all know that it's always said that girls are weak and pathetic, and that guys are much stronger. People also tend to make fun of guys that lose to girls. So is it really true that guys are stronger than girls, and really that much stronger? I don't think it's true. It just seems like an everyday and typical stereotype like that black people have big dicks, Asians are smart and good at everything, Americans are fat and stupid, police officers eat donuts, all Africans have sagging breasts, and SO on. It just seems no different than any of those, it seems not true just like them. It seems like guys and girls are about equal. Maybe guys are slightly stronger, but not that much, and not all guys. It just seems like both genders are about equal in strength to me. And I myself am a very weak man in strength, ever since I was a kid. I'm not small or anything, I'm average sized and look very average. I can barley lift up a 6 year old little kid, and just about all my guy friends are stronger than me. And I'm pretty sure than an average girl could beat me up, and that she'd be stronger than me, because I'm sure that girls aren't that weak. So, what do you think?

The other day my GF jokingly said would I still be with her if she got fat. Needless to say my answer was probably not.

I am sure I will get quite a few comments like - then you're shallow, you must not like her that much etc...

But I feel as though there is an unwritten rule that is engaged when two relatively fit and healthy people start dating. And that is that you do not put on a significant amount of weight. I think this rule maybe can be at least be somewhat softened as the relationship carries on into longer periods of time and youth starts to fade but thats really it.

And here is another piece of my mind for the ladies. If you can't handle the truthful answer to a question, then don't ask it. Or ask it and just make sure you don't turn into a cow in the near future and we have no problem.

So I'm in love with this girl. She knows I like her, but she doesn't know I love her. We speak to each other everyday.

She told me she wants a driven, cold, controlling, arrogant, dominating, charismatic and powerful guy.
But the problem is...
I'm sensitive, depressed, suicidal, not confident at all, shy, anxious, and not interesting.

So I thought maybe I should try to change. Is it what I really should do? And if not, why not?

Im not asking your minimum and maximum requirements. Im just asking what height range your perfect guy would be. Also tell me your height.
I. e. Im 5'5 and i prefer men 6'8-7'2 or something like that...
I dont want:
Oh height doesn't matter or
He needs to be at least 6 foot or below 6'5 or anything like that.
I was just curious about what height is best on a guy.