Polls: Relationships

I used to like her until I moved in. She changed after I moved in. I have never hated an animal before especially dogs but I really hate his yorkie. She pees and poops everywhere in the house ever since I moved in. She pees on my stuff only never his. She has bit me twice when I was just trying to put her in the crate or in a separate room since she had was going all around the house peeing or pooping. I couldn’t handle it anymore just wanted her put up so I could focus on my babies only, but then she bit me. I just wish she would die or runaway at this point she makes me miserable bc I’m constantly cleaning up after her and I’m on edge with her biting me. I feel terrible thinking that bc my boyfriend loves her so much and I’ve never hated an animal.

After seeing the recent thread where a girl slapped her boyfriend across the face for something he said, and he broke up with her, I started thinking that maybe he deserved it, because what he said was pretty nasty.

I talked it over with my boyfriend and he disagrees, he said that you never elevate to physical over something someone said, it's only acceptable to hit someone who hit you first, and I said that sometimes, a smart slap across the face is a necessary response.

My boyfriend said "so, if you said something really bad, it's okay for me to slap you across the face?" and I told him that's different, woman aren't as strong as men.

Thoughts?

like what love language would you respond the most to or would mostly like to receive from your significant other. As a follow up to the “what’s your love language question”

Say you had your first love you lived together even or if you had a kid with this person, would you ever/have you ever gotten over the feeling? Were you able to move onto another person and build a larger more true love with another person or is your first love always on your mind?

my friends and I are having a debate whether or not men forget their first love. Many say they don’t and will be married with another woman and their first love truly never leaves their mind they’re in love with another woman. What are your thoughts/experiences?

Even if the meet up was 100% platonic or even professional?

Just a thought because my last ex was fat actually. I know there's a stigma with that word, but I'm just telling it like it is and describing him.

Do you think most people end up with their same size of a partner? I don't like that to be honest with you because it's not like they can HELP their body type! (Nor can I for that matter and I'd be the skinny one in the relationship). How much a person weighs and their body shape is a lot based on genetics and lifestyle! One you can control yes, but the other you can't! Also, I think age is and health is a big factor as well!.. Your thoughts?

Plus, I've seen "different shaped couples" work out so..

The actor John Goodman (from Rossanne fame), his real life wife was, I wouldn't say skinny, but definitely not fat. She just started gaining weight after having children and aging, but when she was younger, she wasn't his body shape!

My ex's brother is also skinny but his wife is more of normal shape.

I also had another ex who had a friend who was dating this fat chick. It was like a ball and stick I would say to myself lol. Sorry yeah, that was mean. I learned my lesson lol. It's just that she wasn't always nice lol and so I guess I gave her that nickname in my head to make up for it lol. .. And the dude was skinner than normal, that's why.

Update: Just like being racist, it's not like you can always control your body shape! and people can change shape once they get older, get sick, situation, socio-economic changes, etc!

There's a lot of talk about equal opportunity, but how many men actually want to be house husbands and do all the work women do? 🤔

I broke up with my ex because my ex-boyfriend kept forgetting something that I said many times and kept forgetting his promise. (He explains that he keeps forgetting stuff because he was high on weed.) Because he forgot about it, he said I like to exaggerate stuff and forced me to apologize instead. I feel gaslighted, so we fight. We split after the same thing kept happening. So now he comes back, says he is a new man, and promises to be better. Should I consider reconciliation?