Polls: Relationships

I mean I've seen white and black couples having kids especially when the woman is white and dad is black that the child has some
sort of disability/autism...
do u agree

My mom had offered that me and my boyfriend can possibly live with her later on because there’s space in my house plus it would help us save a lot of money…. my boyfriend says he does not wanna live with his mother-in-law…. is it because he dislikes my mom or is it because he likes his privacy?

my boyfriend does live on his own in a condominium and is independent…. his parents live separately from him in their own house

My bfs brothers wife gave birth to a child today and I msged his older brother saying congratulations but he didn’t respond to me and only read the message…. he used to always message me before asking what me and his younger bro were up to and if we wanted to come out with him and his wife…or if there was an occasion where he expects gifts for his kids….. now he’s being rude to me…. how come?
he’s also rude and nasty to his younger brother at times and also has a wife who’s a bit on the possessive/ bossy side of things…

I 23F have been with 32M since November 2022. His last relationship was with someone one year older than me which should have been first my red flag.

I have introduced boyfriend to a handful of friends. He becomes so drunk and high (unbeknownst to me) that he essentially becomes mute! If he does manage to muster out a few words his speech is very slurred. I had to carry him home to bed and would pop back out to continue the night on with my own friends on both occassions. boyfriend has never seen the issue with either night and doesn’t understand how it would embarrass me.

My friends were more than surprised when I revealed he was 32 and they were very quick to say he comes off as very young and immature. The last thing I want to do is introduce him to my immediate family out of fear he’ll embarrass me AGAIN!

His house is filthy and he’s spoilt! Mummy and daddy have paid his bills and insurances up until this August. When it came to paying his first electricity bill and car insurance renewal he was none the wiser and needed guided help. He has a degree in IT and software development.

He has been driving more than several years and inherited his car basically brand new. His dad always did the insurance and brought it to the garage for repairs and paid for them. Mummy has even offered to clean the house he also inherited several times but thankfully, boyfriend says no.

I asked him to help me clean his house one Sunday after I woke two hours early to get started and he give me the “you’re not my mum” and “stop annoying me” speech yet suggested another time I come out a day early to clean while he worked. The house is filthy, destroyed in mould, and smells of damp. Instead of buying new pillows for the bed, he wants to try and wash them first (despite being covered by mould and pillows being cheap).

Even when we text, he types like a child. He’s 32 but it’s still ‘bby’ not ‘baby’, ‘meh’ instead of ‘me’, and the conversation isn’t a whole pile of stimulating typically.

Sometimes he goes for a shower, or making dinner etc.. he would leave his phone on the sofa or table
He doesn't take it with him

If he's cheating, he would always take his phone with him right?
Or not necessarily?

Would you leave the material things and a wealthy lifestyle behind to be with someone poor if it's real Love? Short story to my Q&A I grew up in an adopted home, both parents worked good-paying jobs, so we never went without food, water power, we weren't rich but wealthy. When I was young I went through a phase of wanting the fancy things in life until I realized money can't buy happiness, because I wasn't taught lessons with money my parents always gave me what I wanted. anyway, my boyfriend of 6 months, lives in a poor community, and barely has food on the table, he has the power on in his house but for a while, they don't have enough to pay the water bill. They've struggled in life. I never knew how bad poverty is until I met someone who has lived in it or you in it.
Anyway, we are madly in love with each other and being with my boyfriend and seeing what my future could be like if I stayed with him. I realized what kind of commitment I'm going have to take, what I'm going have to leave behind to be with someone worth it as him

I broke things off with him cause it was never gonna become anything besides a situationship and I waited a year on him but when I gave up and started sleeping with someone else he said I was for the streets and if I was looking for potential in someone else. I started talking to him after I broke up with my abusive ex that wouldn't stop stalking me. He asked me out but he didn't want a relationship like I thought after we talked for 3 months, he was working on myself. I liked him a lot so I thought I could wait until he changed his mind but I waited a year and he never did. I started seeing someone else after he got too busy to hang out anymore after his new job. I told him I started seeing someone else after we didn't talk for 2 months , well I called and texted him hut he was either busy or tired to talk so I stopped he texted me after and then got mad when I started seeing someone else and said I was for the streets. I broke things off a week later and that was his response.

He's had a very traumatic past and he has expensive clothes.

I wanted to replace his expensive clothes with ones we bought together.

He thinks I'm being unreasonable for wanting him to get rid of clothes that are tied to trauma.. and I thought it would be a healing process for us to get new clothes together to replace them.

Am I unreasonable for wanting to get him new expensive clothes to replace the old ones and close the door on the trauma and make new memories?