Polls: Relationships

Me and my girlfriend have been together for around 9 months and got into a situation yesterday.

Me and my girlfriend want to eventually get married but there's one issue. My soon to be wife wants to have traditional benefits while being a modern woman.

Let me explain.. Early in our relationship my girl professed to me that she wants to be a stay at home wife. Since she told me that, I realized that we were compatible. I wanted to provide for her and pay the bills and utilities.

The problem arises here. Yesterday, my girlfriend then told me she wanted to be a corporate career woman. We had a conversation about it and I told her, she told me before that she wanted to be a wife instead.

The huge issue here is that, my girlfriend wants me to pay all the bills, groceries, etc while working a corporate job for 60 hours a week, and travel the world while I take care of the children.

The deal is that my money is her money

And her money is her money only.

I told her, if she gets a job she'll have to pay 50/50 and she got really upset with me.

My question is, am I wrong in this situation?

Basically a man who treats her like daddy, little princess and spoils her rotten in general but when it comes to bedroom, treats her like a 2 dollar whore/escort that he just paid to get his rocks off.

So I personally miss a lot of the good answers that older women used to give on GaG years ago. So much has changed with the demographics on the Internet and social media since then, and a post-COVID world has made people a little less human.

Once upon a time you used to see really great answers on this site from females but especially the older ones in their 40s and up that were rich and detailed with serious life perspective and experience about men. Even if you didn't always agree with their thoughts, there was always something you could get out of it. Plus I would have tons of great discussions with them in DM, and not just here but on other old dead sites too like Answerbag and ExperienceProject.

I feel like most women's answers nowadays lack that depth because many are inexperienced even if they are dating or having sex, or at least not learning about either themselves or men from those experiences. Many give answers only just to have something snarky to say that bears no real life knowledge, or their only response is to attack some guy and call him an incel, or they give literal two or three word answers. It just looks like you haven't learned a lot in life that you can offer anyone.

But what do you guys think? Who do you feel like gives the best sex/relationship advice or perspectives on GaG?

Yesterday evening I sent one of my team members on Discord a message that stated how she's very short but not as short as my ex. Earlier this morning, I tried to message her to inquire if she wanted to participate in working on the MVP, but I discovered that I wasn't able to send her any messages. I right clicked on her profile to check what's going on and appeared that she unfriended me; assuming the worst, I decided to send her a friend request and as predicted, she had blocked me. I then went over to LinkedIn and sent her screenshots to ask her why she blocked me, and then she blocked me there within seconds (very odd since she takes forever to respond there lol).

I have since removed her from my pitch deck and my business license (via government website), as well as permanently banning her from my startup's Discord server. Since she was allegedly already in a tech startup of her own similar to mine in industry/sector, it was a conflict of interest for her to remain in the team anyways. I understand that I have to be professional with others in a business setting, but if she can't even handle an observation that was a bad joke at worst, she's not gonna succeed with her own startup even if it is not-for-profit. There's a lot of assholes out there in the workforce that are gonna say much ruder things than I ever would within a professional environment.

If in a group setting, with or without your man, and someone talks smack about your man, do you stick up for him? Do you publicly back his move?