No matter if you are or aren't single at the moment. If you're completely honest with yourself, Are you ready for love or in over your head?
I posit that the human condition is intrinsically unstable, a perpetual odyssey of self-discovery and growth. Certainly, some individuals may appear more poised than others, but the notion that we should only pursue romantic entanglements when entirely devoid of personal challenges is a fallacious one. My wife and I navigated through tumultuous times, punctuated by fervent disagreements, as we grappled with deep-seated emotional scars. However, our metamorphosis from egocentric attitudes to ones of altruism paved the way for a harmonious union. This profound transformation was catalyzed by our embrace of Christianity and the dedication of our lives to Christ's teachings. I believe a prevalent impediment in contemporary relationships is the rampant self-centeredness; such inwards focus invariably sows the seeds of discord and tumult. We each carry our burdens and imperfections. The true essence of companionship lies in finding someone whom you can uplift, and who, in turn, serves as a beacon, guiding you through life's inevitable ebbs and flows.
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Marriage vows are traditionally written around the idea that you stay with a partner even in the hardest of times, be it financially, emotionally, or medically. Anyone who cannot give that level of commitment, is not ready for a relationship.
There is no such thing as "Too much on your plate to be in a relationship".
There is however such a thing as "too much on your plate to be alone".
Even regardless of what I say, it always takes two unfortunately to make something beautiful such as a loving, lasting, supportive and REAL relationship to work.
Not just that, but people of all ages get into relationships/marriages for all kinds of reasons (she got pregnant, he needs a green card, lonely in jail, etc.).
I think yeah, if I only met the right one (and THEY thought I was the right one), I think I could very well make it work. I just need to earn enough though first, before I truly take on the responsibilities of a spouse and mother.
I honestly wouldn't have that much time for them right now.
I live in a city that's about... 170? km away from where I work. Which means I currently stay at my parents so I "only" have a 45 minute commute every day.
And about every other weekend I drive back to my own apartment and be with my friends.
So.. not that much time currently.
I'm looking into getting a better job with a much better location though
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I am very stable in relationships, I am hard to get but once you get me, I am very stable.
I'm still getting used to my new apartment, my somewhat new job, and trying to get my routines and habits cleaned up so I don't have to think about it too much.
I'm too busy and too focused on making my own life more optimized to date someone else right now.
I'd rather not get distracted. I would love more fuck buddies though.I am ready, very steady, and dependable. I don't trust easily, but once you've earned my trust I am yours and yours alone, but if you hurt me or cheat on me, I am out. I am done and you'll be gone.
Everyone has problems..
So I guess with the right woman in the right circumstances.
it isn't just love it is also a partnership, that demands sacrifice and gives boons.Too old , too broke, no looks, no figure, too fat, low paying job, drive a piece of shit car, home needs a lot of work, nothing to offer except a sad story and a long way to go. This is why I am single.
I am stable but I never want to be in love or relationships by choice. Yes there are reasons for that.
i've been in a stable relationship for over 7 years so i'd say so
Ready for something slow and getting to know someone
I don’t understand having too much on your plate, it’s just another reason to find a partner so you don’t have to go through any hard times alone ❤️
I’m not, honestly. I got too much baggage that I prefer to stay single. I would advise any guy to not date me for their sake.
🎵 Are you stable for love? Oh baby are you stable for love!
I have too much on my plate but will be in a relationship in 5 years time!
I'm stable enough for TWO relationships :D
I’m ready to get warmed up.
About as ready as I’ll ever be just too shy
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