Polls: Relationships

Of course the extremes like cheating does not count here.

Things you feel you cannot tell your partner because you think it will damage the relationship possibly beyond repair?

Whether it is, that you used to skin animals (e. g. pigeons) for food to survive.

Or that you are into my little pony or transgirl p o r n or you (used to) spend money a few times on only fans.

Or that you have a chronic but hidden on the surface disease or had mental health problems since a long time.

Or that you have some unpaid debts, that you do not want to drag your partner in.

I will not believe you if you say you don't have things to hide from your partner, that you think you can't tell your partner unless there is 100% transparency. That means your partner has fully accepted you with all your quirks, k inks, weirdness, fet ishes and so on.

Also: Not sharing phone, account and computer passwords do not count here. These are cyber security things.

Hi I’m new to GAG this is my first question being posted. My girlfriend rarely wants to have sex. We have even less sex than old couples. 95% of the time she wants to cuddle without sex. I’ve tried talking to her and she always come up with excuses one after another. So in this question I’m going to share with you her excuses and why I’m frustrated.

• 1. Is that we don’t spend enough time together: I've been trying to spend all my spare time with her. Now I’m over at her house almost every day to a point where people think I live there. Nothing changed!
• 2. Is my work schedule: I used to work evenings and she’d complain that I come to her house too late and she’s tired. I switched to morning shifts 3 months ago. Nothing changed!
• 3. I don’t do enough around her house: For example, she wants me to clean her house and do repairs. I try to clean up all her messes. I’ve even learnt a few carpentry skills to repair her house. Nothing Changed!
• 4. Her work is too stressful:Now she says we can only have sex on our days off because her job is stressful and she needs to sleep after work!

Now she’s telling that sex doesn’t interest her and she can live without sex. Funny that she says that because, she one time dated 2 guys at once. This was like 8 years ago.

Her best friend told me she used to come to her crying because her exe boyfriend never wanted to have sex with her. And how she went and got relationship counselling.

I’m wondering if I should stay or if I should break up with her. I’m also wondering if she’s cheating. Can this be fixed? Let me know in the comments🙂

I think if someone is deceitful and slimy enough to cheat on their partner, then they’re gonna lie and be deceitful to you too.

I was friends with this guy who wasn’t cheating on anyone himself but he was fucking with someone who was in a relationship. And he found it funny that they were cheating with him

I didn’t respect what he was doing but I minded my business and continued to be his friend.
Then I found out he fucked my partner too and went around bragging about it 🤠🤠

So now I stay away from those who cheat/home wreck, because they have no morals. They’re gonna fuck over their friends too.

My dad likes delicate, helpless women. I do too. It's been one (of several) problems in his marriage, and he tells me that he hopes I find someone competent and independent. But the problem is that doesn't interest me at all.

Obviously my dad is well-intentioned when giving me this advice. But I know my dad and I have our differences. Some of the problems he has had in his relationship won't be applicable to mine, but I question if this particular problem will, too. Besides, perhaps it's the accumulation of problems that lead to the failed marriage, not this particular problem alone.

So I wonder, am I a fool if I disregard his advice, and follow my heart to marry a sweet helpless girl? Or would I be narrow-minded to think my dad's relationship inevitably will reflect mine if I do? What do you think?

You are single, you are dating, you are in a committed relationship, you are in a relationship that's breaking up, you're married, you're divorced. . . but "it's complicated?" Does that mean you have no idea whether your partner agrees that you are in a relationship, you are playing that silly break-up/make-up game and you can't be honest about what's happening with your partner, you're too embarrassed to explain what kind of a mess you've created, or something else?

Have you ever referred to your status as "it's complicated?" If so, what does it mean for you?

Is it better to put up emotional walls and avoid interaction with the opposite sex to protect from a possible rejection?