Have you had a crush or been attracted to someone else while you were in a relationship?

Xia1994

Xper 5 Age: 25

Have you had a crush or been attracted to someone else while you were in a relationship?

I’m not asking this question to condone cheating or infidelity I’m only asking it to see if whether this happens or not.

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nolabels Follow
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I've been married for 30 years.
A few years ago, I encountered a lovely young lady in a professional capacity. I met with her frequently over the course of several months. She is many years my junior. We had many very deep conversations during our professional times together.
I came to see her in many ways, the daughter I never had, an intelligent, caring professional, and I also felt a very strong romantic attraction to her.
Without her actually saying it, I believe that she saw me in a similar way as I did her, as a father figure, an intelligent caring man, and a potential, but forbidden romantic interest.
Our paths separated.
I'll never forget her.

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My SO knows that there is one actress that I'm attracted to, and that uf she ever showed up at my door, I would invite her in... if you know what I man. That's never gonna happen though... it remains a fantasy.
Closer to reality, we all find others attractive... but we don't do anything about it when we are in a cocommitted relationship.

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For most guys, being in a relationship does not mean they automatically stop feeling attracted to other women. Most guys understand that is a purely physical reaction that should be ignored and they remain faithful to their partner. "Being attracted" does not constitute being unfaithful; acting on the attraction is what leads to being unfaithful.

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Simple fact is girls that you aren't in a relationship are perfect. They have never been mean to you. You haven't seen them without makeup. Oh there is a long list of all the ways they are better than the girl you are with.
Of course if you upgraded the situation wouldn't change.

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- Xia1994
  
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  What do you mean by the situation wouldn’t change? Are you saying that dumping your partner for the other person you are attracted to will result in your relationship with that new person being the same as the one with your ex over the long run?
  
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- Xia1994
  
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  Or are you saying that even after you get with the person your attracted to or crushing on and dump your partner for them you’ll crush on someone else again and be attracted to someone else which will create a loop 🔁?
  
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- RavVid
  
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  Both really. I suspect most people are on a loop in that respect. After a while the person you are with is nowhere near as exciting as they were when you first met. Someone else is new and all the more exciting for that. In time they become the familiar person and not so exciting. Repeat. Repeat.
  
  Does that make sense? The problem is not valuing what they have given and done.
  
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- Xia1994
  
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  I hear you loud and clear!. makes complete sense thank you!.
  
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- RavVid
  
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  Thanks for asking that question and prompting that realization in myself. That's is really why I am here - for the realizations prompted by Qs.
  
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- Xia1994
  
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  It’s such a pleasure honestly and thank you aswell for your response it’s much appreciated and it provided insight! ☺️
  
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- RavVid
  
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  You're most welcome and I am equally appreciative.
  
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definitely not... just no chance for any of that

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richardcory Follow
Xper 7 Age: 57 , mho 37%

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Sure, happens a lot. Doesn't mean you have to act on it.

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Finchie40 Follow
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Yes , it happens , but I wouldn’t jeopardize a healthy relationship for someone else

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gerald5466 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 18

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I've found girls attractive and stuff while I'm in a relationship but I would never act on it cause I'm already with my forever

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D_Bone_Steak Follow
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I always get horny for chicks. It's no secret.

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Bklynbadboy12 Follow
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Yes unfortunately I have so I avoided her like the plague

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Yannishka Follow
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OFC he isn't the only cute guy alive today

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shades777 Follow
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yea women are built to be fuckable so I can't not look

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- Jazzy54
  
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  Wow, that’s the only way you see women?
  
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- shades777
  
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  nah I'm just going to the pure biology of it all, I know the delivery is a bit harsh
  
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- shades777
  
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  Initial attraction is that way, but loving someone is deeper than that
  
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- Jazzy54
  
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  Ahh. Okay. Thanks for clarifying. 😊
  
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Kelly6 Follow
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Yes I have that a lot

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LiamJHayden Follow
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Attracted to, yes. Pursued in any way, no.

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CVNT5 Follow
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i only have eyes for my girl💕🤤

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LaFemmeFatale_1 Follow
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No, never.

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LavLavLuv Follow
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I have not

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No never

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Many times...

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Anonymous
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Not possible.

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Many times

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