Have you ever developed a crush on someone else while being in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

[jennifer_bloom]

I liked another guy but it had nothing to do with the second guy and everything to do with the fact I did not like the relationship I was I'm, the guy was not evil or abusive, but he did not know how to show affection and needed me to guide him through everything cause he had no experience with girls. Like he was so nervous he didn't even sleep properly during our first date.

[richardcory]

Sure, and I think it happens often. What happens is that when you meet someone interesting / attractive, at first you don't know much about them. So your brain fills in all the missing information with what you *want* them to be not what they really are. This creates a sort of fantasy person - who can easily seem better than the real person you are with.

Over time though you would discover the new person has all the same sorts of flaws that everyone has

[mobiusforniner]

Yes. Its not like after we are in a relationship or married that we dont suddenly find other people attractive

[Anonymous]

Yes I have, that's pretty common in my opinion.