While in a relationship have you ever got attracted to another person?

[Anonymous]

Maybe a colleague, friend or classmate?

I’m in a relationship and my colleague talks to me a lot. I always dress nice while she's at office and love talking to her.

It’s just a basic attraction. We just talk from office. No phone calls, outing or anything. But still feel guilty when we talk personal things.

have you ever been in this situation?

[Guy13]

Yes and i think everyone who has lived even a short life knows that feeling. Involved with a woman, meet another one and feel a vibe etc. Attractions come and go all day long. Acting upon it is one thing totally different from having the experience.

[Asker]

Thats right

[Anonymous]

In my current relationship, yes, once. I was attracted to one of his coworkers, and I even started having raunchy dreams about this coworker, and I felt incredibly guilty about it because I would never cheat and I felt like I was a horrible person for feeling this attraction. I ended up talking to my partner about it because it was eating me up inside. My partner was calm about it, and explained to me that it’s perfectly normal to feel some attraction towards other people. After talking to him about it and him reassuring me that I’m not a bad girlfriend, my attraction for his coworker went away and things went back to normal.

[Asker]

Your partner is wonderful