Polls: Relationships

I hate the fact that my girlfriend has mostly guy friends. Especially after she admitted that these guys want her. She texts these guys on a regular. I told that it bothers me and she tells me I should trust her.

Tonight we went to one of her male friends bday parties. I started chatting with a girl named Amber at the party. My girlfriend got pissed and told me not to talk to Amber for the rest of the night. My girlfriend thinks that Amber was trying to hook up with me. I explained to my girlfriend that me and Amber were just talking about food. But she was still pissed.

I feel this is double standard. I haven’t mentioned it yet because I don’t wanna ruin the night. But I feel I should bring it up with her next time I see her.

What do you need to know?

I honestly can't tell if larger weight (being fat) is a bigger turn off or if it someone's race that is a bigger turn off. i am confused because i am not girl. I am also trying to remain slim, but not sure if its worth it to stay slim because girls dont like certain races based on my research and i belong to that race. I prefer not to say my race so people dont make fun of my race

From a biological perspective it makes sense that women would be threatened by a side woman because she could potentially become pregnant and siphon resources that otherwise would go to her and/or her child. However, trannies can't get pregnant. Of course the concern of STD might be the only legit argument women would have to be against this. However, one could put forth an arrangement in which your husband regularly gets tested for STD.