Polls: Relationships

Just as the title says! Discussed this with my partner a while back so honestly just curious of others thoughts.
I personally bruise very easily and like both getting and giving, as long as I won't have to display it among a ton of people afterwards 😂

A little curious about this. I really wouldn't have anything against working at home (maybe in the future be a stay at home mom). I believe in the whole women should be allowed to choose what they want to do etc, but for me there's no big job dream I have, and would rather try to help my husband by taking care of our home. Maybe do some part time occasionally.
So wondering how you all feel about it, explain your opinion if you have one ☺

I’m asking out of curiosity. I know in general such relationship sexual where Asexual people do have lots of affection.. I just wonder if anyone here has had such a relationship.

Picture has nothing to do with question.. I just saw him in a car when mailing a package.. He looks like a Minnie Me of my neighbor (many of you have seen Thatcher) I think he is adorable 🤷‍♀️😊

Long story short: my boyfriend and I were together for just over a year, we’ve both been there for each other to doctors appointments, he helped me lose weight and encouraged me to get my drivers license and was always cooking for me... always very affectionate as well... his parents really love me as well - especially his mom... she was even inviting me over for the holidays and teaching me about Judaism and baking with me and driving places with me... my boyfriend and I were also living together at his parents house for 5 whole months as well and everyday I was visiting him at the hospital when he ha surgery and he was ther for me when I had a minor surgery as well... he was in jail for 3 months cuz he drive with an invalid drivers license and I waited for him and everyday he was calling me and his mom and telling. Me that he loves me and wants a future with me and was making future plans with me... also was encouraging me to spend time with his family... now when he retired back, we had some miss understandings and a fight and we took a break.. he met this aggressive bitchy goth chic who always fights him and abuses him... he was begging me to come back for 2 whole weeks and even gave me a mermaid necklace cuz he knows I love the little mermaid...
he always hugs me and kisses me in his sleep and whispers that he loves me so much and sometimes even holds my hand in his sleep... but that other abusive woman is still around and he tells me he doesn’t love her at all and that I have better qualities than her... his mom even tells him that she prefers me over the other woman and his dad can’t stand her either... his parents tell him I’m more suitable for him as well... this other woman bruised him and beat him up as well...

he someotimes gets into bad/sad moods when I leave his place... does he still love me and seem to regret the break we took?

A follow up to @coachTanthony's question: Whose really at fault when their partner cheats on them?

Let us dig a bit deeper: who's to blame for the cheater cheating? Is the other man or woman at fault for inciting them? Or is it the cheater's fault no matter what?

If you've been cheated on, the cheater, or even the "other person," I'm curious to hear your input!

Why my boyfriend won't show me on his socmed at all. We hv been together more than a year. Is he ashamed with me or what?

I have been together with my boyfriend for 6 months now. I know he loves me a lot and has done many things to keep the relationship going. He has helped me grow, gave me prospective and always made an effort to make me happy. He has always been communicative and he is a wonderful person. He says that I have done a lot of things for him and he is really very grateful to have me in his life.

So he is a great person. I make him happy. But there is one little problem that bugs me. He has done it all from drugs to sex to partying to playing around to being in in serious relationships and is now ready to settle and sees me as his potential partner. I, on the other hand have been with very few guys, never have been in a serious relationship, have not done any drugs, never played around or rather how should I put it "I feel like I've never lived my life". I feel insecure.

We are very different. We have different thought processes and don't really agree to all of his opinions. I have tried to break up with him 2-3 times in the past but he always came back and asked me to stay. I can't pin point exactly what is going on.

I have never been in love before. I don't know if i can classify my feelings for him as love but I have never cared and thought anyone as much as I've thought about him. I've tried to tell him my insecurities but I've never got any satisfactory answers. I have no clue what is happening. I know one thing for sure, things can go slow no matter how hard we try; he sees his future with me and about me I don't know.

Many men complain about the OkCupid study that found that men rate women as much more attractive than vice versa.

These men say that it's because women are more shallow, but I say it's because of the opposite: Men care more about a partner's appearance, and women know that, so they work harder when it comes to their appearance. Since they work harder, OF COURSE they'll be rated as more attractive.

This is the same reason many women will say that gay men are hotter than straight men: gay men, seeking to attract men, put more effort into their appearance than straight men, who seek to attract women, who care less about looks.

It's also why lesbians are often seen as less attractive than straight women. Lesbians don't need to put as much effort into their appearance because they're seeking to attract women, who care less about looks.

Once I did a poll asking how much time people spent in their online dating pictures. Most men said they spend 5 minutes or less, whereas most women said they spent more than that. When it comes to your online dating profile picture, how much time do you typically put into looking good for the picture?

Men expect their quick selfies to be rated equally as attractive as women's pictures that women spend time into looking good for?

Those are my thoughts. What are your thoughts on why women rate men as less attractive than vice versa?