Polls: Relationships

RANT: Why is it that women say "why can't I find a guy like you" always the ones that turn down the nice guy to go for the ****hole. Then turn around and cry that they can't find a nice guy to treat them right?! Its like.. I gave you a chance, its not that hard to find a nice guy you just need look at what's standing right in front of you and not over their shoulder!

Let's say he isn't boring/likes doing fun things, has a lot of interests, but isn't necessarily the life of the party.

Why or why not? Please explain.

She's been at the beach for 2 days now and this morning was the first time she's talked to me since Friday night. It's weird though, she texted me and I just didn't want to talk to her...is this weird?

I told her Friday night to text me tomorrow whenever, and she never did...so I'm a little mad but its no big deal ha ha.

Oh by the way we've dated a little over a month but have known each other several months beforehand and we both love each other.

yeah I was just wondering because some times at stores I get called stuff like that and it p*sses me off. I've also had times in the community where some one said some thing like "thanks hon". so I wondering why guys get called stuff like this , considering if I did that to girl I would a horrible sexist. just want your thoughts are on the matter

and for the guys what are your thoughts on being called stuff like this. does on the age or how good looking she is?

the pole is guys and girls do you like being stuff like that?

I mean they are so damn appealing, but you know you're gonna get a lot more than you bargained for, even just letting them catch you looking at them, half the time. Let's hear some pros and cons regarding the prospect of living among women, rather than fleeing to the hills, or a monastery, or blinding yourself, etc.

Eros – some people experience love with a lot of passion, intimacy and intensity. Love based on Eros has a strong sexual and emotional component. People who experience love this way want to be emotionally and physically close to their romantic partners and they tend to idealize love. Such love is marked by passion as well as compassion (kindness and consideration). Eros is best viewed as romantic, passionate love - the type of love that creates excitement at the beginning of a new relationship.

Ludus – some people experience love as a game to be played with other people’s emotions. The goal or desire is to gain control over a partner through manipulation. People who experience love as Ludus like to have multiple love interests where they are in complete control. Lying, cheating and deception are common for people who experience love as Ludus – it’s all part of the game. For people who experience love as Ludus, it is satisfying to outwit a partner and exploit his or her weak spots

Storge – some people experience love as a gradual and slow process. When love is based on Storge, getting to know someone comes before having intense feelings for that person. Love based on Storge takes time, it requires genuine liking and understanding of a partner, and it develops slowly over time. Love based on Storge is often compared to the love that one has for a friend. In fact, people who experience love as Storge often fall in love with their friends.

Agape – some people experience love as caregiving. Love is the overwhelming desire to want to take care of a partner - a parental or nurturing type of love. Love based on Agape is attentive, caring, compassionate and kind - a more altruistic or selfless type of love.

Mania – some people experience love as being out of control. Love is an overwhelming experience; it turns one’s life upside down and it results in a complete loss of one’s identity. Love based on Mania is crazy, impulsive and needy. People who experience love as Mania fall in love quickly, but their love tends to consume them. Love experienced as Mania also tends to burnout before it gets the chance to mature. Such love is often marked by extreme delusions, feelings of being out of control, rash decisions, and vulnerability. People who experience love as Mania are easily taken advantage of by people who experience love as Ludus.

Pragma – some people take a practical approach to love. Love is not crazy, intense, or out of control. Love is based on common sense and reason. People who experience love as Pragma tend to pick a suitable mate the way most other people make serious life decisions: picking a partner is based on careful consideration and reason. Practical concerns underlie this type of love.

Sadly you can't have 6 options and its not possible to choose more than one option so if you feel like you're a multi please write a comment

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