Polls: Relationships

I am 29, and my girlfriend is 26. We are each other's very first serious relationship. We met on New Years Eve, dated, and we officially became boyfriend/girlfriend at the beginning of February. Not long ago, I took her virginity.

Moments ago, I just had a conversation with her on the phone. I raised concerns that I hardly get to see her. On average, we see each other once a week for a few hours. I have yet to really interact much with her family. I only saw her mom once on New Years Eve when I first met my girlfriend. I met her brother once. And I have only had a few brief conversations with her dad when I pick her up at her house. I have been expressing for a while now how I want to get to know her family. I haven't been invited into her house beyond the foyer when I pick her up.

Meanwhile, I moved out of my mom's house a few weeks ago and leased an apartment in hopes my girlfriend would see me more. So far, that hasn't really worked.

The thing is, she doesn't really conversate well on the phone. She even expressed that herself.

I finally told her today that while I am giving her the benefit of the doubt now, eventually it is going to be a red flag.

tell me your thinking.

I personally am pretty extreme and want someone who will be there for me through the worst of the worst, someone who values me above all else. I would sacrifice in equal amounts, like two halves of the same whole defending each other with religious fervor.

Most people seem to pair out of convenience rather than something deeper. Your thoughts?

not perfect but still i would stick with some core principles.

I don't think I do

I’ve noticed some odd behavior from my wife over the past few months. One day last week, a guy came to the door asking for my wife. She shooed me away, and about a minute or two later, he just simply left. A few weeks before that, I arrived home from work early and saw a guy leaving our house and getting into his car and leaving. I asked my wife both times and she said not to worry about it and it’s nothing. Other odd behavior I’ve noticed is that she doesn’t want me seeing her texts or Facebook messenger messages. She’ll get a Facebook message but won’t let me see and when I try to look later on her phone, the message is gone like she erased it. Now, she barely talks to me and won’t tell me if she’s mad at me or why. She just says she has to take care of some things around the house. I haven’t suspected my wife of cheating in the past but this is sounding like cheating. What do you all think?

You just found out your fiance has been cheating on you. You're really hurt by this! While saying your goodbyes, they happily tell you they have no regrets about anything the two of you have done together, sexually.