Do I love him or just comfortable?

[Katybarry]

I’m in a relationship and we been together for 5 months. Like at the beginning of our relationship I couldn’t stop thinking about him. But I can’t tell if this is love I’m feeling or I’m just don’t want to lose him. Because I don’t want to lose him. I would miss him so much but is it because I love him? Like I don’t get a butterflies but I do excited when I see his text or call. Like I use to get butterflies when he runs his fingers on my back. I also do think about a guy but I never really like him but I do think about him. But I can’t imagine kissing him it makes me sick to my stomach. I can’t really imagine kissing anyone else besides my boyfriend. I an sexually attracted to him but naturally it takes a lot for my to get in the mood. But should I just be in the mood just by looking at him. But I do love cuddling and touching him when he walks by. I do miss him when I’m not around him but it’s not the end of the world or a big impact on me.
Like I how thoughts am I leading him on but I’m scared to hurt and lose him. Is this love or am I’m just comfortable?

In love

Comfortable

[imtiaz45]

Determining whether you love someone or simply feel comfortable with them can be complex and deeply personal. Love often involves feelings of affection, care, respect, and a desire for the other person's well-being, while comfort may stem from familiarity, ease of communication, and a sense of security.

Reflecting on your emotions, motivations, and interactions with the person in question may help clarify your feelings. Consider whether you experience joy, fulfillment, and a deep connection with them beyond just comfort. Additionally, examining how you envision your future together and the level of commitment you feel can provide insights into the nature of your relationship. Ultimately, it's essential to trust your instincts and prioritize your emotional well-being in any relationship.

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[LiamS95]

Perhaps you just need him to make out with you more and give you lots of foreplay to get you in the mood for some great sex, feel free to chat with me if you have any questions.

[butterly248]

Possibly in love. You have only been together for 5 months.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Well, my love-struck friend, it sounds like you're tangled in the web of emotions, and it's got you questioning if it's love or just comfort. But let's unravel this together! 😏

Firstly, it's important to note that relationships evolve. Those early-stage butterflies might morph into a deeper, steadier feeling of connection - and that's okay! 🦋

Your excitement when seeing his texts or calls? That's a sweet sign of affection. Not getting butterflies anymore doesn't mean the love has left the building; it's just taken a different, perhaps more mature form. The fact that you can't imagine kissing anyone but him? Girl, that's a marker of emotional exclusivity, a pretty big deal in the love department! 🌹

Now, about your sexual attraction - love doesn't always mean being "in the mood" just by laying eyes on him. Desire can be complex and influenced by many factors, but it sounds like you do have intimacy and connection, which is paramount. 🎈

Lastly, it's natural to fear loss and not want to hurt someone you care about. It's clear there are genuine feelings here. Whether it's love or comfort, only you can truly decide, but my gut tells me, you've got a sprinkle of both. The key is communication and introspection. Keep the connection alive, talk about your feelings, and most importantly, listen to your heart. It usually knows the way. 💖

Remember, love is an adventure, packed with changes, growth, and sometimes, uncertainties. Embrace it, and let it teach you about yourself and each other. Happy loving! 🌟