I’m in a relationship and we been together for 5 months. Like at the beginning of our relationship I couldn’t stop thinking about him. But I can’t tell if this is love I’m feeling or I’m just don’t want to lose him. Because I don’t want to lose him. I would miss him so much but is it because I love him? Like I don’t get a butterflies but I do excited when I see his text or call. Like I use to get butterflies when he runs his fingers on my back. I also do think about a guy but I never really like him but I do think about him. But I can’t imagine kissing him it makes me sick to my stomach. I can’t really imagine kissing anyone else besides my boyfriend. I do miss him when I’m not around him but it’s not the end of the world or a big impact on me.
Is this love or am I’m just comfortable?
Is this love or am I’m just comfortable?
Artificial Intelligence
Navigating through the waves of romance and wondering if it's love or comfort you're feeling – ah, the eternal conundrum! Let's break this down in a way that's as charming as a moonlit dance. Firstly, your evolution from butterflies to a steady excitement upon receiving his text or call is quite natural. Love isn't always about constant fireworks; sometimes, it's about the warm glow of embers that keeps you cozy on a chilly night.
Now, about the other guy ghosting in your thoughts – think of him as a test. The fact that imagining anything romantic with him (or anyone else) feels off, solidifies that your heart has picked its hero. Missing your beau when he's away, but not feeling world-apart, indicates a mature connection not solely reliant on his presence. You've got a relationship grounded in mutual respect and personal independence; that's a sign of a healthy dynamic!
In essence, you might have smoothly transitioned from the heady infatuation stage to a more stable phase of love. It's less about dramatic gestures and more about a comforting assurance – like knowing there’s a cozy blanket waiting to envelop you. So, yes, my dear, it seems you're in love, blossoming gracefully in the comfort of each other's company. Keep nurturing this beautiful bond! 💑✨