How true is this statement, "The right woman will love you for who you are, not what you have"?

[worldscolide]

I would begin this by saying i think its very true. My wife is like that.

True

False

[WintersDaughter]

The right woman will see your potential, they see what you can do and what you can accomplish and they will encourage and support you as you reach it.

The wrong woman will see none of that, or a little of it, and will leave because you don't already have it.

[worldscolide]

Or the wrong one will see said potential, and exploit it and use it against him.. You're absolutely right though.

[Agape93]

Absolutely

[BCRanger10]

I think I agree with that. Reminds me of a Tim Pool video I watched recently where he (sort of) discussed this. I'll find it and put it in a comment.

[BCRanger10]

Here it is...
https://youtu.be/_MueI6T8Eh8?si=ut9DbFHQmOfEg7QD

[AviatorTom]

You can replace "woman" with "person" ... even truer.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Aiming to spread some love wisdom here, and I think you're onto something sweet with your statement. It's like a golden recipe for true love! When someone loves you for who you are - your quirks, your laughter, the way you sip your coffee in the morning - rather than what's in your bank account or the brand of your car, that's the real deal. Consider yourself lucky, my friend! It's like finding a rare gem in a vast mine. Embrace it, cherish it, and love right back with all you've got. Remember, the best things in life aren't things; they’re the people who make you feel loved and valued! Keep nurturing that wonderful connection you have. Lovebombing you with positivity! 🌟

[AJR78]

'The right person will love you for who you are, not what you have.'

Fixed the title for you. It's not a gender thing, it's an individual person thing.

With human nature being what it is, most human interaction that is not based on love, requires incentives to motivate both sides to interact. Human nature is simple so the spectrum of incentives is basic and straightforward with 3 categories. Lust/vanity. Money/acquisition. Favor/influence.

True love wants or expects nothing and instead is driven solely to give everything away, all you have until there is nothing left.

[sage2021]

There is this really cool song by Alice Cooper titled "You and Me".
It's the perfect song for what you're talking about.

Listen to it on YouTube. I'm sure you'll like it. 🙂

[Purpleronnie]

Yeah , I’d say that’s true of the right “person” although there can be some pretty convincing actors so …..

[DishLady]

The right person — "the one," male or female — should be able to appreciate the whole you, otherwise what's the basis of the relationship?

[WhitneySnow]

That’s true of everyone, not just girls, and included guys who love a girl for being more than just beautiful or sexy.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Yet the downside is too clingy too loved up I'd feel a little overwhelmed. After all, no one likes cheaters or users yet no one likes obsessives either 🙂😌👌🏻

[Karolinska]

It's somewhat true but even that kind of love even has limits. No such thing as endless unconditional love if a man is complete psycho with all the wrong aspects.

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

It can sounD kinda true;but not true enough. The odds of finding a Woman like that is "too thin"( like winnin' the lottery! ).

You jus gotta adopt ( like Al did w/Peg ) and make the best of it..

[handsomelad70]

About 65%-35% yes, but very few women will date a true pauper.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I think it'd be true.

[worldscolide]

I would have to agree

[JayBones2469]

True love is gay and male. Females are completely incapable. They only seek benefits

[sheenagwapa]

protect her dude true love iw not easy to find

[TommyMountainFigure]

Yep, that is a two way street as well.

[DonVitoCorleone]

completely wrong 🇮🇹🇮🇹🇮🇹🇮🇹🇮🇹🇮🇹🇷🇺🇷🇺🇷🇺

[TonyMetal___86]

These women are very rare

[CriticalCatDad123]

I have yet to believe that to be true. So far it can be more false

[CriticalCatDad123]

Can't be more false*

[worldscolide]

Why do you say that?

[CriticalCatDad123]

Because I have yet to meet this fictional "right woman." I don't believe there is such a thing as someone meant for someone else in a romantic sense. Not after all of my experiences. Both when I was seeking out a relationship and now when I'm not seeking anything.

[worldscolide]

Dude I guarantee I've been through more hardship when it comes to women, and yet I still held out hope.. And now I've been married 9 years..

[CriticalCatDad123]

Have you been cheated on by 3/4 of the women you've been with leading up to a false accusation with an ex parte ppo you had to fight in court and all you could do was have the ppo changed to a temporary restraining order and eventually drop out of school and swear off all women?

[worldscolide]

I've been cheated on twice.. And I lost my brother to a vindictive ex wife who accused him of raping his daughter. I found his body with a hole in his head...

[CriticalCatDad123]

Damn... Alright yeah you have me beat. I'm sorry to hear that man... That's truly fucked up

[worldscolide]

no disagreement here. there is a special place in hell for her. I also recognized that while women like her are more and more common, Good ones still exist. They are just hard to weed out.

[CriticalCatDad123]

Personally I don’t think the risk of running through the bad ones is worth finding a good one.

[CriticalCatDad123]

By the time you find a good one you’re too broken for a healthy relationship with the good one

[worldscolide]

That's not what happened to me...

[CriticalCatDad123]

Well, how many did you run through until your met this supposed good woman?

[worldscolide]

7. Including my wife I've been with 7 women.. This is since I was 16.

[CriticalCatDad123]

And you’re 40 now… vastly different dating era compared to now.

[CriticalCatDad123]

This is what we’re dealing with today… https://youtu.be/Z7WH5_S4Gps?si=1TvyPi8p1xNJm1wh

[worldscolide]

My dude.. she's a good one. Good ones are hard to find, but they exist. I met my wife 11 years ago. I I married her 9 years ago. The problem with the women you pursue is that they are leftists, and they are addicted to social media. Thats only about 60% of women. The good ones you gotta go and meet in places like churches, or in my case it was a concert. she's a small town conservative girl. she's also 9 years younger than me. Its best to avoid colleges when it comes to women too. College is an indoctrination hate factory that ruins good women.

But trust me on this, Good women still exist, You can choose to believe otherwise, and thats on you, the reality is somewhere in the middle.

[CriticalCatDad123]

I attend a few churches in my area and both only have old people. A new life church I attend with my mom and a baptist church I started going to with a few friends. If I’m going to meet a conservative woman it’ll be through my mom or friends. And even then such a woman probably wouldn’t want anything to do with me as they’d be seeking a family and I’m shady marriage and I’m asexual so I won’t be having children. Adoption I’ve considered but it seems like too much paperwork

[CriticalCatDad123]

Against marriage*

[JHAYES317]

True but how many marriages last a lifetime?

[Likes2drive]

Yes it seems to make sense and would be true

[midnightmoon05]

Agree 💯!!

[laly520]

true