Questions: Relationships

A traditional woman used to pride herself on serving her husband. Something that most men place great interest and satisfaction in.

While many modern women claim to be completely independent and do not require a man; a man’s happiness is largely based in being a provider and being appreciated for his efforts. If a woman has no need for him and does not bestow gratification upon him for his labours, what benefit should a self sufficient man hope to gain through an unnecessary relationship?

Most Men are fully capable of providing themselves with every personal desire and need. Besides sex and children, the independent feminist woman offers no personal gain to us. While we are content with our own capabilities and provisions, we have little satisfaction to gain by risking our lives and estates for an ungrateful female companion.

While I applaud social changes that allow women to succeed on their own and be independent, I merely state the possible cause of many modern women’s loneliness and isolation from successful capable husbands.

Summarily, we are mostly unnecessary and unappreciated, hence have little to gain and much to risk. At the end of my third marriage, I look at the incredible cost of giving away the fruits of my many conquests and labours over the years and ask myself if it was worth it? Aside from the knowledge gained and experience, I conclude negatively.