Do you agree with this tweet saying it is less bad for a man to cheat then a woman to cheat?

[RyanEC]

[Julie4]

It's absolutely ridiculous. When a man cheats, just like a woman, it's betrayal, it's as simple as that. And if a man who cheats on me comes to tell me that he still loves me, I simply wouldn't believe him, because when you love someone, you don't betray themI would like to add this short speech by a French artist given in an interview:""I've always said, if one day you fall in love with someone else, you have to tell me. You have to come home and say, 'sit down, I have something to tell you. Here it is, I've had a huge crush on someone and I'm in love with them.' And I would say very kindly, 'Listen, I understand very well. I want to say; there's no problem. You can't help it. You didn't choose to walk down that street, to go to that restaurant at that time. You didn't choose to turn your head and suddenly, to meet a gaze. And then suddenly the person says one thing and then another thing and then you fall in love. It's not written in the penal code. You can't help it. I imagine, since I love you and I know you, I imagine that if you had the possibility to press a red button or a green button, the red button is the moment when you feel you have an emotion, you press the red button, you say 'it has to stop' and it stops, I'm sure you would have pressed the red button. But that's not how life works. And so I've never been angry with someone who might have a crush on someone else. But what I don't like is... what's "icky". I don't like what's hidden. I don't like people who see each other in secret. I myself don't want to be the one who goes for a walk with the dog, who sends texts in secret. That, I don't want. I think it's not good for the other person but it's not even good for oneself. It's not pleasant, we send each other something not nice. It's notNice."re-state://background_color_rgb (255, 255, 255), font_color_rgb (31, 31, 31), justifyLeft

[RyanEC]

I did say a few times I’m a supporter of Thaïs but sometimes she says things I really don’t agree with.

I was shocked that she thinks this.

[Julie4]

I think this girl is just looking for buzz now.

[RyanEC]

I wonder if she really believes this or is just trying to gain more notoriety with controversy.

I know she is from a “traditional Catholic family” so it’s odd she would say this.

[RyanEC]

After questioned her about her viewpoint and telling her adultery is a “mortal sin”
she said “I don’t place myself on a scale of religious values. I judge the facts from a psychological point of view”

[Julie4]

What does "psychological point of view" mean? It's just ridiculous. I mean, let's say that from a psychological point of view men cheat because they need to satisfy a primary sexual need or they need to "hunt" for their virility etc., in which case why would women be devoid of the same feelings? And in that case, what's the point if a man is guided by such feelings, wanting to build a family etc? What she's saying makes no sense at all.

[midnightmoon05]

I disagree with her saying. She is saying…men cheat.. for variety and purely physical but still loves his wife.. I don’t like that.
women cheat…it’s emotional then physical, so it’s her all.
either way.. cheating is wrong regardless of the reasons.

[loveslongnails]

To answer the question, no I don't agree with that. It's a rationalization, but here's some other thoughts.

Cheating is defined by the expectation within each relationship, and don't just glance over that. It will vary tremendously, AND it's not just physical but for some; it's emotional/mental betrayal as well, particularly for women. The other obvious historical fact is that men don't equate monogamy with love to the degree that women do. Men will try and use a biological imperative to rationalize promiscuity, but that's way too much to discuss here. LOL Volumes have been written about that.

[razelove]

I think it's only applicable if there are kids. Without kids regardless of the feels, you just go your separate ways with some hate, discontent and disappointment.

With kids if the guy cheats, worst case is a split home, worst case if the woman cheats is a split home where he begins to deny the kids are his with good reason.

[ZackBan]

Nah man. Cheating is cheating there are no levels to it.

Who cares if you still love her afterwards. You still betrayed her.

Cheating has nothing to do with love it has to do with respect devotion and loyalty which people seem to undervalue these days at their own perils

[turnpost]

I feel that this sort of true. When a guy cheats its more of a dumb action, or sexual urge or emotional urge that can be fixed.

when girls chests its mostly going to be something a man can't really fix physically. the guy pays his due (most of the time) so lost of investment.

But after pregnancy its all flipped, who is going to take care of the children.

[Billlewis]

No. I think it's exactly the opposite. A relationship is much more likely to fail when the guy cheats, rather than when the woman cheats, in my experience.

[CalmUntilAbused]

For the society it's just as bad. For the species, as long as we think of humans as if they were just animals, it might a certain genetic benefit, but this way of thinking is rotten anyway.

[Little_Bumblebee]

No, I don't agree at all. It is equally bad.
And if you intentionally hurt someone, then you don't love them. Cheating is selfish and hurts the other partner. That's not love.

[RavVid]

I'd agree largely. For a male it has the threat of raising another man's child. For a female it has the threat of the male's resources going elsewhere and not benefiting her and her children.

[wiltingrosepetal]

It's something Andrew Tate said.
I think that's enough of a reason to call this bullshit.

[shiran_]

I disagree. Cheating is disrespectful to your partner no matter if you are a guy or a girl

[NathanDavis]

the stupidest thing I've heard today... but it's the AM and I just got here, lol...

[slatyb]

No, I don't. It's worse. A man is more likely to transmit an STD to a woman than vice versa.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Cheating is cheating no matter who does it. Don’t waste anyone’s time.

[douride2]

Cheating is equally bad no matter who does it.

[Anonymous]

Hahahaha, that's a woman looking for a beta male provider, that's why she flatters men. She prefers that her husband be unfaithful to her because she does not want to divorce her and lose the money she takes from him.

[HelpfulWoman]

easy no. any cheater is trash

[LiamJHayden]

Cheating is cheating.

[NamerOfStars]

Merde.

[Slim57]

No it's just as bad for any reason

[miahulsey]

Nope

[JamesRandiDebates]

Absolutely