Questions: Relationships

The stereotype is that women are more likely to tolerate a cheater than vice versa. But I believe that is mostly true if she depended on him for money. That financial dependence is lessening in the past few decades in the western world.

Now I think too many men tolerate cheating women.

I am all alone and have always been single. Lately I have been feeling really sand and lonely as if I am missing something...

And there seems to be an opportunity to be in relationship with a dark woman. She is showing some signs and hints of wanting to talk to me more and possibly take things further.

But the thing is she's too dark. She would be my first ever girlfriend. Wouldn't it make me embarrassed in society especially in my friend circle to show her? What if we marry and reproduce dark children?