Polls: Relationships

So I make healthy snacks that can be really expensive to make, awhile ago my boyfriend would ask me for some since it seemed like he liked them as well as his coworker really liked them. This would be almost an every other week thing roughly. So once he stopped working with her he stopped asking for it and it seemed like he never really liked them because if he did I feel like he would still ask for them even though he’s not working with her at the time.

A couple months ago I gave him some without him even asking, he brought it to work and as always he says his coworker really likes them and last time he had them he complained how messy they were. Now all of a sudden since he is working with his coworker again and he told me his coworker asked for a fresh batch of them.

If it’s once or twice of asking for them then sure no problem I’d give it to him, but my problem is he didn’t ask for them for himself and it’s been more than twice where he would ask for them for his coworker to have.

i gave him the recipe so if his coworker (s) wanted to have some they can make them

Out of the many infidelity stories I've read, that one that realized still being hurt and cheated in revenge makes me feel some sympathy for them.

What if they started as a decent, good and innocent person that would've never cheated if they didn't get hurt that badly? Unlike the selfish cheater, they cheated out of excruciating emotional agony and anger.

What do you think? Would you feel some compassion/sympathy for them?

Let's say you were in a relationship or marriage. Then it became toxic suddenly.

Scenerio: Ok so the woman doesn't abort your child. However, she tells you that she'll leave you and will give up the baby after giving birth unless you want the baby but that means you'll be a single father. She tells you "I don't want nor care about the baby, I'm leaving".

Would you accept being a single father if the woman doesn't want nor cares for your baby?

I have a very big bill of 30k. I recently quit the school so I can get a full time job, but it takes to long. I want to attend school in September again. Till then I want to pay my bills because it makes me depressed. Working full time isn't enough. I can pay the half of my bills in 1 Year of working full time.

The only solution would be tantra massaging I know a place we're I made 30k in 6 months and is still good. I don't had sex with anyone.

The clue is that my boyfriend knows about my bill and he supports me mentally to get through this and even pay the vet bills. I'm very thankful because my pets are not at fault for my bills. He will get it back.

I'm very stressed out knowing that 10hours of work don't add up to the full amount and time I need to pay off the bills.

He told me he is okay with the massage but deep down I'm afraid he won't be able to comprehend it and eventually leave.

So what should I do..

Would you be okay with her carrying a baby, or multiple babies, for someone else for 9 months and giving it up?

Love or commitment?

For me it's commitment. Your commitment shows you love them and want to make it work. Commitment is something you do because you love them. It's a way to support your partner. You are COMMITED to making it work, to being with them through good and bad, etc. It's not always easy to commit to someone, especially if you can be free and selfish, etc. Also how can you say you love someone but not be committed to them? Our TIME and our ENGERY and AFFECTION is one of our most valuable resources and you should only give that to people you care about.

Some of the true crime fans have to be absolute experts at murder, crime scene clean up, and hiding bodies by now. At what point do we as their partners start running? 🤔😅

So for example if you’re talking to someone in conversation and they use “like I said..” would that be rude or annoying to you?