
For those of you who do not know what a binary is - it is a set of 0s and 1s that underpin the computer program to tell it how to behave or conduct itself
Our world also contains absolute good and absolute evil - no one can deny hugging you grand children is good and nobody can deny killing a child is bad - some things are so obvious they trump all reason and argument
But people are more than just good and evil
If somebody is recovering from alcohol abuse is it bad they used to be alcoholic or good they are recovering from alcohol abuse
If they fight pain in the recovery process is it good they are strong enough to fight it or bad they have to experience something tormenting
Life is full of greys that can’t be coded either as good or bad
Pastors who want to pretend the adult porn actress that was sexually molested in middle school deserves a jail sentence and not a hug and loving therapist are wrong
Pastors who want to mock the bullied kid for not having the confidence to speak his opinion in public rather than attempting to build his confidence are wrong
Pastors who want to exclude the brain cancer survivor who lives on welfare for being too lazy to work as a doctor or lawyer are wrong
They are sinners who practice moral binaries when they should be practicing love and compassion
Recently a pastor who preaches fire and brimstone and punishment all day long has tried to divide our bible study group into age ranges and ban all pre and post bible conversation because I spent so much time mentoring a teenager in the study he thought I had sexual motivations for talking to him
I believe some people are righteous and some are wicked and others are neither evil nor good
This fire and brimstone preacher believes everybody is helplessly evil and jumps to the worst possible conclusion when he sees uncommon or atypical behaviour at church
This is why moral binaries are bad
And why we should view the human heart as a rainbow of complexity and emotion
And not a black and white math problem for which a dark scale is always correct
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"Moral binaries are bad" That's an oxymoron. Start over.