My pastors advice on dating

[jennifer_bloom]

My pastor said if a girl wants to impress a guy she has to rely on her inner personality and not her outside availability because a woman cannot make herself unique by offering herself to a man but a woman can be unique when she expresses her personality because each soul and spirit has a specialized beauty that nobody else has in exactly the same way.

If you look at Tiger Woods, he chose Elin because she was a principled centred person and aggressive and caring and concern is not something you can buy with money, and Priscilla Chan is intelligent which is also something that others cannot duplicate since she went to Harvard and Hailey Bieber was a very quick and cooperative thinker which nobody else can duplicate either, and I know girls who were chosen because of their artistic ability or their slightly chubby bodies or their dignity and independence. I also know Ivy League guys who don’t want strong woman but prefer a delicate rose that they can take care of, if you exploit your inner beauty, your man will be loyal to you.

[RedBullRacingLemia]

Thank you for sharing.

[EzNamirimEzDibirim]

Oh good

[cryscrys1]

You know what.. people change people grow until they die and people sadly can be unexpected jsit like that they simply can disappear from your life. A man you find today might love your inner beauty etc etc and he is so loyal but a day comes and he wants to stay alone travel? and re marry later again maybe? Like shit happens
Your pastor concept is correct but you have to expect anything from humans we are very unpredictable.
My idea of life is - don’t take life seriously if you do it’s going to be miserable for You! Just life life as you wish and how it goes at the end of the day this is a temporary world for us we are here to learn and collect some memories to keep and rethink them when we are about to die.
I sound harsh and stupid but this is life. Life is a bitch. To get along with a bitch you have to be a bitch too.(sometimes ofc)

[Aakash_Hangargi]

What a bitchy comment is this 😂

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Why the username though cryscrys1 i want to know

[cryscrys1]

That’s your opinion. I think the pastor is correct but people change , we can’t take the pastor words to heart

[Aakash_Hangargi]

I was just kidding , you used bitch more times thats all

[cryscrys1]

Well it’s not a lie life is a bitch 😅

[josephinelcajon]

My advice to you is find a friend then find a soul mate from those friends to love forever! Remember that friend growing up that was so close you could finish their sentence!

[motownplayer2000]

Woods also choose 14 other women while he was married to that one chick from the Olympics.. your pastors words should be right in theory. For both sides. But men are more attracted to the physical then the mental at times.. but true connections form through the mental and emotional.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Even i did search on him and came to know all of his wives name i wanted to write similar comment as you but then i didn't 🤣

[motownplayer2000]

Lol…

[jennifer_bloom]

She got $200,000,000 from the divorce settlement and alimony payments, a small price for being cheats on.

[motownplayer2000]

That’s not a small price to pay. That’s a very large price. She got what she needed.. yeah. He is a douche for cheating. But that’s not small.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Don't you think it was inevitable dude had 14 wives doesn't it say it all she was in for money

[Aakash_Hangargi]

She literally wanted to leave the tiger in woods after divorce i guess 😂

[True_Sage]

Women are attracted to physical and money. They are even harsher judges of appearance and more exclusionary re: looks... unless you got money.

[True_Sage]

and yet "women have it so hard" rofl.
can earn 1000 lifetimes of money just spreading their legs.

[Massageman]

I'm not sure that TW is a role model for relationships, but I will agree with the pastor's take in the first paragraph. Kind of like in Proverbs.

[iamjustaman]

Your pastor speaks truth in this matter. Beauty fades, but who you are at heart never changes that much. The trick is to get him to notice that part above and beyond outer appearance.

[wiltonaimes]

your pastor is limited, thinks he's wise, and is a charlatan. and you believe everything he says.
lol.

i kNOW you'll respond "you don't know me!!!" that makes no sense. people can judge you or relate to you in any way they choose. that's like human conduct 101. and Jesus Himself said you should turn the other cheek and be humble. keep on assuming random people who don't know you MUST be good to you! fuck your ego! hahahaa.

[legalboxers]

Taking advice from a Pastor, is like being on the Dr. Phil show. Do you really want that?

[True_Sage]

Especially dating advice from a pastor. Many are celibate in many religions lol. Like asking a shark how to gather nuts for winter

[legalboxers]

@True_Sage you make more sense than me :)

[True_Sage]

What would a pastor know about dating? Aren't they celibate? Lol

[jennifer_bloom]

Priests are celibate but pastors have wives..

[True_Sage]

Ahh ok. I meant priests then. Tho pastor might not be the most up to date on dating advice. They'll probably give very "nice guy" advice to serve your wife do all the goodie goodie stuff which will lower your attractiveness as she goes for bad boys on the side lol. Pastor maybe better for advice about a wife but def not dating.

[True_Sage]

Err replace wife with girlfriend in the middle there

[CasuallySamsonite]

You lost me at Tiger Woods...

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Never take dating advice from pastors

[spiralshape]

I'll be like Tiger Woods then

[Anonymous]

Good take