What I got out of studying Rachel’s Genesis Beauty

[jennifer_bloom]

Jacob married Rachel because she was bold and independent and glorious in appearance, but he later decided that he preferred sleeping with shy and meek and domesticated Leah and that he would rather build a family with her than Rachel. The fact is, physical desire is temporary and cannot endure or out compete spiritual desire which lasts a life time.

I’ve met men who married unloving woman because they had physical desires, and they end up trapped for forty years with a quarrelsome and emotionally abusive lover, and once the children are grown up in these marriages, they develop medical problems that prevent them from divorcing their abusive wives who hate them and use them purely for the medical insurance and work insurance pay outs which is higher than their minimum wage salaries without their domestic partners.

Don’t fall into this trap. Begin by choosing the meek spirit of righteousness, instead of marrying the body and being trapped in an unhealthy relationship after your desire dries up from time and familiarity. Meek and humble lovers are beautiful, even in old age, while a bold and loud woman is only attractive for a few months or years.

[aquamarine321]

It is easily said than done, because we are all naturally attracted to persons who are attractive in appearance, but I also get to realize that most attractive people aren’t inclined and have bad toxic habits

[SixFootSexy]

If you're not physically attracted to someone, you're not going to want to have sex with them or be married to them. Marriage is far different now than it was back then, and there are way more options for people. But better off not being married if they don't love you and have good character.

[jennifer_bloom]

I’m not saying you have to be anorexic or look like a whale and still expect dates but I mean if somebody is healthy they should be judged based on their character and not the shape of their nose or eyes