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Would you date a muslim?
I would probably not date a muslim. As a person who doesn't believe in gods etc. I prefer dating someone with similar belief as me. I'm not into dating someone with any religions, but especially not Islam for instance, because I prefer a partner with a more Western culture and views on things. These Muslims I've seen do have some conservative opinions that I'm not a big fan of. Example what people can/can't eat, women's rights, what to wear, praying five time a day etc.
If I dated a Muslim, my date have to respect women's rights plus me and my family's way of living. I would still eat what I likes to, wear what I wants to and do what I wants to do. Just because the date is religious doesn't mean I needs to be it too in the relationship. If my date couldn't respect that, I would simply just break up.
I knows it exists conservative religious from all religions. But where I lives the majority of Christians for example aren't conservative. They're quite modern and Western. Most Muslims in my area are immigrants and refugees with a different culture and values. Many of them have opinions about women's right and the Western way of living that I'm disagreeing with. I've not met modern Muslims in my area yet. My cousin broke up with a Muslim because he wanted her to convert and if she didn't, he wouldn't spend his time with her anymore.
This is my opinion about the subject according from what I've seen now. If I meets a modern Muslim I might change my opinion, but I doubt I would meet one very soon.
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Saving sex for marriage?
When it comes to saving sex for marriage I'm fine other people are doing it, but I'm honestly not into marriage and thinks it's fine just being a couple. I don't need any marriage. I thinks I needs to know a person for almost a year before going to bed with them.
Convert?
I wouldn't convert to Islam. Now I'm an non-believers. If I ever 'convert' to a religion I thinks it would be something more liberal where it's no strict rules, but just believes because you want to and being yourself. Treating other humans nicely is important regardless of faith.
From my viewpoint, I really don’t care what religion do you follow, what the colour of your skin is or your ethnicity. But let’s start with problem number 1 - Muslims are not allowed to date. Before someone jumps in with “not all Muslims follow the rules” yes I do know that. I am just repeating what I’ve been told. That’s all.
Problem number 2 - I am an atheist. That is important because Muslims are not allowed to date nor to marry atheists.
Would I date someone for whom I have feelings for? Of course. But I wouldn’t want to lie to my partner - I am an atheist and I don’t think that will change. Conversion would be a lie since I would pretend to be something I’m not. This is me just be honest - I respect everyone’s choice to believe in what they believe in, follow the religion they want to follow and plan their life in the way they want - at the end of the day I care what kind of person you are more than about anything else.
Have done twice. Once very seriously. My BFF's husband's BFF. He travels we aren't a fit for reason outside of religion but we are friends.
For his work he's often abroad asa consultant on his own for 6 months or more than home for many months if he likes.
When he was in Brazil he was very happy because no one expects you to speak Portuguese and his Pakistani coloring was not abnormal. He was thick wonderful hair and dresses very well with custom made shoes.
Then he went to a certain country in Scandinavia and they refused to serve him at a nice restaurant. They served him at the bar upon a retainer at first. Then when he brought clients they were very open to him but he was afraid to dine anywhere else for fear of rejection.
He was their during the winter, felt isolated, and came back horribly depressed. Wouldn't leave his highrise and grew out his hair. This is a man in his 20's at the time, born rich in the US who had a cobbler in Switzerland make his shoes.
When he came back from Northern Europe he was honestly never the same. He was never cocky and always generous with tips to waiters and picking up tabs when maybe he shouldn't because he didn't know most
people in our party.
I'll never forget what it did to his confidence for that dark period. This is a man who made millions in his twenties working in sales but was knocked on his ass in Scandinavia when he was told he couldn't eat at places.
It wasn't just that it's that it's lonely being abroad if you can't make friends. The culture is different. He usually made friends with restaurant staff at first then others.
I'lll just never forget the way he was treated. He could be of any faith and I actually hated just a little how perfect his hair and clothes were. He's very American. He speaks a few languages but not Farsi or Arabic.
I don't like your inclusion of the hajab in the pic.
I am Muslim from Turkey. In Turkey in big cities, most of the times virginity is not important anymore but still sex is a taboo. I don't think it is because of religion but rather societal pressures, especially from moms and dads as Turkish culture is collectivist unlike Western culture, and family values, opinions etc. are important when you live your life, so you cannot really live free unless you are ready to break your own shell without getting scared that you'll be weirdo or outcast of family. So sex before marriage is not really something unless you're in rural areas.
I dated Turkish guys. As well as 2 American, 2 German, 1 Vietnamese, and 1 Italian. Least was 7 months among these relationships. I can tell culturally these guys are very different. Turkish guys are very loving, caring, respectful, yet possessive. Germans are the same but they are not possessive. Americans basically have no manners or respect towards women unless you have sex with them. Should I put these into being Christian vs. Muslim? No i don't think so.
I think religion is something to not care unless the person you date is extreme. I would not wanna marry an extreme Muslim, Christian, Jewish.. any religion. My dad is Jewish and my mom is Muslim in Turkey, and I don't think they had any problem raising me, and I chose Islam by myself, but rather in a lapsed way.
So I would not care marry or date as long as we speak the same language in all other parts of life. Religion can be different as long as there is no extreme values, suppressing or oppressing others, trying to convert, or trying to impose on kids in future etc. I'd marry I would not care.
You are totally right! I agree with you :)
"He has to be a Muslim too" - this is exactly why I would never date a Muslim.
1. He's only gonna want me to convert.
2. My parents would so disown me if I fell in love with a Muslim. I came from a Muslim country and these past 2 years, the number of radical fanatics have risen a lot. You will never succeed doing business if you're not Muslim. The former government was jailed for 2 years because he's Christian and is of ethnic minority. The adzan starts at 4:30 am and you hear something f4om 2 mosques near my home every. fucking. hour. Sometimes twice an hour. It's fucking ridiculous. It makes me really, really, REALLY not want to live with Muslims. Makes me want to change my fucking nationality cause all of this makes me so angry and embarrassed. Muslims can't separate religion and other things. That's why.
3. I won't want to raise my kids Muslim.
4. I think Islam needs a modernization. The religious fanatics are like still living in middle ages with child marriage and honor killings, and separation between men and women, and all
No. A person should never want me to change in order to be with me... if I change it's because I felt it, not because someone demanded it as a rule to be with such oerson... that's not love, when you love, you accept the person how they are and if they wish to change and you like that change, well even better! But never having conditions and rules for others to change solely to be with you... ewwk! No👎!!
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I am an atheist. But religion is far less important to me than politics. If a girl believes in a god or gods, that's up to her. I think it's silly, but if she's an agnostic theist, I can at least still respect her belief. (You dont KNOW any more than I do. lol. Let's not be silly)
If a girl is Muslim, that's one thing. I find being religious or not doesn't speak to how GOOD of a person you are. And that's where I am chiefly concerned. I'm only interested in dating and being friends with people I can see good in. And I find that a person's political ideals *and their reasoning for holding those ideals* are some of the best indicators for what kind of a person they are.
(What i mean is, even if I disagree with someone very fervently on a given political issue, if they can justify their feeling on that topic in a way that allows me to understand that they feel that way out of love and concern for others, then I can for sure respect that. And that shows me they are perhaps good people)
Clear as mud? lol.
i am so sorry, or it may sound i a an asshole. but for now i can say i won't. i am being honest because my experience with this particular community is you can say not pleasant.
1. they hate science , basically they hate everything which can go slightly againts there Holy book quran.
2. they are too much resistive to change, change is something they see like very bad, i mean are we supposted to live in 800 ad?
3. even though its there community which is responsible for killing of many, somehow they always potrait themselves as victim. and some them even hold a soft spot for terrorists, making arguments like they are just victim with no control of anger.
4. burqa, whatever argument u make, its a bullshit tradition which only disregards women. and idc it should be banned.
i can go on, but i think i made my point. so if i ever met a muslim girl, my firt response would be a no. i can stay frnds but can't date. if somehow, as i still believe its only my experience talking there are still muslims which contradicts all i have mentioned above, i can date but for now. i can't.
@mohamedatef98 lol dude, i started with the line that i may appear. so u engineer muslim? ans me with bottom of your heart.. you believe in evolution? killing of animals to please god? compulsory burqa?
@mohamedatef98 and i am talking about today dude, do not compare world wars. that eas a shitty time with all shitty people fighting each other. talk about terrorism, again plain and smiply saying terrorism is bad, you are justifying it with the events happen im past. isn't it can be said as holding a soft spot against terrorism?
sorry mr. f**king @mohamedatef98 but this is true as i have experienced. and i said i may be wrong but my ans was in context of would i date? hence my ans is NO.
also i am an athiest, so neither of you people even wanna date me on first place lol.
as one pointed out... you non believers are evils walking 😂😂. he said it is written in quran or sth.
every religion believes that the other religions is wrong
and that is why it is a religion !
not because of one bad experience you had it will considered that islam is totally wrong
a lot of people die every day in Palestine and iraq and Afghanistan and Iran
and a lot of the killing is by Christian people... why Don't you say the Christian is dangerous and create terrorism
@mohamedatef98 read carefully my frnd, i have no problem with any religion considering thr is best. its outright stupid but so as religion om frst place.
my experience is based on with many people. all are very resistant to change, disregarfs everything which slightly againts thr religious views and disrepect women.
and again mr soft spot, every country have more or less faced exploitation nd killings from a powerfull country at some point in history. Britishers occupied hindus nd exploit them for 200 years, Chinese govt still have treated many tibetians badly how many hindus n budhist hav u seen doing kaboom? infact. we white people exploited blacks nd slaved them for years, how many terrorists u have seen which are non-islamic blacks. so mybdear frnd just have guts and say that terrorists are just pile of assholes and there is no good justification for whatever they do unless for me you are just another terrorist wth no weapon or will to kill. bcz there is no justification for ki
we americans sure took some wrong steps and declared war where we could have settle things other way... but yes we went to war, not just went around nd surprisinh people. by killing them, and here we stand and say that yes we took wrong decisions which can be criticized and we lost our soldiers nd buttload of money too. can you say the same about terrorism?
terrorism is NOT a result from discrimination or exploutation. its a result of radicle mindset. bcz same people who claimed to be exploited by christians, exploit minorities in thr own country, name a single Islamic country with a good minority record. name it nd i will wait.
As a christian middle eastern, i can say that such relationships sometimes happen Muslim/Non muslim (mainly christian) , do i support it? no not at all, in fact i hate such relationships for few reasons :
1-Muslims are controlling and they believe you should convert, screw other religions and beliefs cause theirs rule, not my style.
2- Muslim men are allowed to marry out of their religion but muslim women can never do that according to islam, why? cause otherwise they would lose so many members
3- Muslims put christians on a pedestal, they hate them but at the same time absolutly love date and marrying them, they find them more open minded and attractive.
4- Women are kinda naive they think he "Loves" her but no he just treats you like a trophy to go brag to his guys how he scored a "christian" girl (usually the girl is really low class/quality, but to them she's still christian so good enough to bang) .
5- I dont see myself seriously dating or marrying someone part of a cult that pretty much hates everyone and wants eveyone to convert to whatever religion it sees fit.
Here you have it thats how it plays out most of the time, rarely does it work out and the dude they choose to marry is super fantastic, usually he turns shitty after marriage or just bangs and dumps them, quite easy really i dont even feel sorry for such girls anymore they choose this lifestyle themselves knowing exactly what they are getting into.
Nope.. i wouldn't date a Muslim coz i dont believe women are 2nd class citizens.
Sharia Law is too male focused and the whole religious faith system is opposite of all i believe in.
(The christian religion is the positive outcome of the Jewish heritage. Islam is the anti-Jewish religion. Abraham spawned both religions, one without God's blessing and one with God's blessing. You can research the rest for yourself)
So, no I have too much self esteem and self worth to date or marry a Muslim.
I would hope women in that religion could escape from it's shackles and live a free life with a real man.
Just my 2 cents worth...
p. s. I get constantly harassed on GAG by Muslim/Islamic guys to the point i have to block them AND still they will give me crap on my Posts and Questions. Also, not to be mean, but South East Indian guys persistently bug me to send them naked pics and other annoying questions...
I would have no problem dating a Muslim woman as long as she lives like she lives in America. She would have to have parents and/or family members that have no problem with me being Christian and White. She would have to live in our culture, not a Mid East culture. Lastly, if she would require me to convert, that will not happen. There is too much in the Quran that is very different from being a Christian. I guess what I'm saying is that as long as she is willing to live like an American and not want to impose Islam on anybody, I'd be fine with it. I would never try to convert her and that should go both ways.
You'd be surprised.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=atvMky3ZNE0
Your holy book is just as fucked up as theirs.
Dummy do not speak if you don't know don't speak simple
Muslim Women can't marry non Muslim men
@mohamedatef98 then Muslim women can go back to Saudi Arabia where they can marry all the Muslim men they want.
@Deathcore_Rulez_D00d
Muslim Women can stay anywhere and you had to keep your mouth shut
@mohamedatef98
If they want to live in our society, they have to adapt to us. We're not going to accommodate their beliefs. If they don't like it they can go back to their own country.
who told you they do the opposite?
Did it happened and a Muslim woman appeared at you and told your sister or your girlfriend or what ever that they should wear a scarf to cover her hair?
many muslim live in America and Europe countries and they live peacefully.
the post is dumb it cannot be taken as a judge for any religion not only islam
you shouldn't change your Faith or religion for love
it is not a trade
imagine the post again replacing islam by Jewish for example... it will also be wrong
because the question is wrong whatever the religion in mentioned !
I'm sorry, but I wouldn't. I know some Muslim girls are very kind, but I wouldn't. I know I can't come up with a Muslim girl for sure and I will never convert.
1) I'm Catholic, and that would lead to some problems between us.
2) I want a free girl who wouldn't cover her hair with a black veil and enjoy life with me.
3) I'm sorry to tell that I hate watching innocent people suffer because of Muslims trying to spread their faith.
4) I can't date a girl with too many strict family laws and religious laws.
There are many more reasons. And, I'm sorry if I hurt you, but that's the truth. You all must change.
Do not talk if you don't know please
Ignorant people who only do this
@mohamedatef98 Brother, what mistake did I do? All I said was the truth.
I've dated a Muslim, he was a good guy but those cultural and religious differences eventually start to surface and it can be a hard bridge to gap. I personally wouldn't convert and I feel like that's the eventual expectation. I'm with a devout Christian guy now and we run into a lot of conflicts and I'm starting to realize my open mindedness is working against me in the dating world. This is a new relationship and he's already pushing for me to go to church or read a bible and that's just not for me. I respect his beliefs, but I feel like he's starting to push them on me and he doesn't share the same respect when it comes to me having my own opinions. I think it doesn't hurt to think how things could turn out in the long run and if you're with a non Muslim there is a possibility they won't convert and you'll have invested yourself emotionally into someone you can't marry.
There is no compulsion in religion
No I definitely wouldn't date a Muslim, but saying that I wouldn't date anyone who is religious. My first ever boyfriend was a Muslim, and the reason I told myself I would never date another religious person again actually relates to one of your points. He treated me like a dirty secret and told me he wouldn't even introduce me to his family if I didn't convert. No offense to you, but asking someone to change their core belief system for you is really selfish. You love someone for who they are or move on, but I can tell you now that I felt disgusted and betrayed when I was told I wasn't good enough as an agnostic to meet his mother...
I don't think I would mind dating someone from the faith, but I think I'm to American and B****ie for it lol, even in my faith already I converted to a christian faith and I'm to much for them and can't see myself marrying anyone haha. but honestly I think its only a few couples that can make a marriage work with two faiths., If one of you needs to convert why couldn't you? you may learn more about the world, and god and find you want something out of your norm I don't know.
waiting for sex is fine, there is nothing wrong with it as long as its a personal choice.
It'll be a pressing matter to convert so sudden since it'll be years and years of influence be it from another religion or none at all. To convert means to have a definitive stand on belief that will change the your very lifestyle, let alone who you are as a person perhaps. Even if I had the deepest love for a Muslim lady, it will be hard to switch especially at an adult age. And frankly, the reason for change will be due to the person they love. So in a way, they would be on a higher tier than Allah, which should not be.
In the end it'll be a tragic thing for both sides. Only the ability to take in both religions knowing that to some this is sacrilege would there be harmony without many barriers.
I have taught a few Muslim girls while I was a swimming instructor. Granted they were kids and I was a teen and through my late 20's an instructor. I never know that they were Muslim until I saw some of hem after lessons in the hallway, unless they wore a swimming burka, bathing suit kind of thing.
Anyways, I guess what I'm saying is that they are just like other people so for that I would say yes, but I am not religious and couldn't be with someone who was overly religious or had very different view of life. No I wouldn't wait for sex either, I've had to wait long enough for that.
Who made anyone think that they are different?
They have one brain and one heart and two kidneys and a stomach and a liver just like all other the human beings !!!
As a person that grew up in a Muslim country, no. People can say Islam is nice all they want but I have read the quaran (was forced to in Iran) and what is there is there no matter what Muslims say. It's disgraceful towards women and humanity. Most Muslim people have never been treated how women in Iran are so they don't understand. I understand and my scars don't lie when I say I would definitely not support myself or anyone I know dating a believing Muslim.
Easily yes I'd date a Muslim that doesn't matter to me if I'm in love with that person but I can't take a religion seriously that believes a holy book just fell out the sky.. more like thrown outta some guys window lol fuck religion you want to worship your creators go pray to your birth parents although they might call you a freak atheism for the win! well for me at least.. ANYWAY! anyway before any Jews try to crucify me just remember this is only MY opinion it shouldn't mean anything to you so don't get mad.
This is your average, every day example of muslim intolerance and demands. Not only she wishes to marry someone from another race, which means the guy will also be from a different culture, she expects him to dump his won culture, basically his own identity just so she can be a princess for one day in a muslim marriage ceremony.
Muslims want on one hand the whole pie and on the other hand the dog fed. Good luck finding such a guy. I don't say that you can't find one. You can but he will be a feminine wimp who will never make you happy. I've seen plenty of such idiots.
No, I would not date a muslim and if I did I would not convert. Personally, I have nothing against muslims (I'm not going to treat someone badly because they are muslim, and I also have plenty of muslim friends) but my beliefs clash with theirs. I will NOT put on a scarf to hide my hair or wear long clothes that cover my body just for "modesty". If women have to do it then why don't men have to? When men start wearing scarves then thats when I will consider it. Also, I am christian so marrying someone who is not christian would only bring complications.
1. i dont care about my wife's religion... as far as i'm concerned she can believe in the stone.
but if she cares about my religion and she says i must be muslim so we can get married because islam is a better religion than mine or just because 2 people that married have to be from the same religion or any other stupid reason then i would tell her to get away.
2. However, if she is a muslim thats no problem, but she must keep her hair visible because there is no way in hell that my wife covers her head.
The conditions you have stated are the reasons I will not date a Muslim woman again. I once dated a Muslim woman whom I loved so much. I couldn't entertain the idea of converting to a Muslim.
It doesn't make sense why religion has to play a role in my feelings for and spending my life with a woman I love. Why can't I retain my own religion or non-religion? Is it that Islam is better than my own religion or non-religion?
I am not a muslim. Do you think you really can force someone to convert to any religion? Maybe he can tell you I am a muslim now, but inside him maybe he won't believe. In my case that I don't have religions believes, I wouldn't accept anyone who would just marry me if I started to believe in something. It's wrong. However I could marry with people of any religion and I would respect their religion, but don't make me believe.
The fact that she's Muslim and wants the option of dating a non Muslim shows she doesn't really follow her religion. Only men are allowed to date non Muslims in islam because women are thought of as weaker minded.
I would date her only if she was willing to convert to Christianity
Muslim isn't a race, and no I wouldn't. the average Muslim dates only inside their religion, and whenever they date outside of their religion, they force their partner to convert, and not be open to convert themselves. you suggesting this could actually be grounds to honour kill you.
stuff like that is the reason why I rather date a Christian or a satanist over a Muslim
I don't see why a Non-Muslim would date/marry a Muslim. Especially in this day and age where the West views Islam as the new Communism (just look at some of the opinions in this vert page).
Most people want partners with a similar values.
A lot of people today are egotistical narcissists who obsess over sex and money and who either worship themselves or material gain. And so they wouldn't date a Muslim as Islam teaches Submission to god, selflessness, modesty, self restraint. Teachings that counter their YOLO lifestyle.
Muslims are better off marrying other Muslims.
@Z-Spark What?
@Z-Spark how is being controlling relevant to what I was saying?
@Z-Spark No, That's not what I was implying, that's what you inferred.
People with opposing schools of religious beliefs aren't likely to date, it's possible but unlikely. Especially if someones religious beliefs restricts them from behaving a certain way.
Where did I say Muslims were perfect? I clearly said "Islam teaches".
No, I would not date someone that decided to be a part of a Religion that encourages members to separate themselves from non-believers and I would not date someone belonging to a Religion that in my opinion holds women back in the dark Ages. We are in the 21st Century and women have the same rights as men and shouldn't have to cover their heads or submit to their husbands. I believe in equal partnerships / relationships where both accept and support the other :) & that is my.02 Cents ;)
I would only marry a Muslim man who practices his religion and is self aware and constantly tries to improve his inner self/the heart.
The only time I would be with a non Muslim is if he reverts (from his heart, not because of his love of his girlfriend, or whatever) and becomes fully committed.
No matter what the religion, I would never ever marry someone who hates Islam or is ignorant about religion (which leads to bashing Islam )
no i would not
the only reason islam forbids you from marrying non-muslim is so that islam can keep increasing its numbers, while at the same time decreasing those of the "people of the book"/kufaar. it's really selfish that a religion would force a guy to convert just to maintain itself.
No disrespect, but that sounds awful.
Why would I join such a discriminatory violent community where I'll likely be threatened or bullied for going anywhere near you? Sod that.
And no, wouldn't convert. Wouldn't convert for something I don't believe in. And yes, sex should be before marriage.
lol why would you not just stick to your own kind. Kinda like a fat person saying I'm not attracted to other fat people but I'd like a skinny person to like me because they are different, but if they could get fat to make me more comfortable that would be great.
I wouldn't mind, but that's also because I know I wouldn't necessarily have to convert to the religion, as it is the male's religion that counts in a household (If I understood the muslims I know correctly).
However, I have no plans of getting kids, and it seems to be a very important thing for most religious people - not meant as a generalization, but it is what I have come to understand by getting to know a lot of religious people.
As for saving sex for after marriage... well, I wouldn't mind, but with how free people are when it comes to sex today, I'd say that's going to be rather hard - it seems unnatural for most.
Converting to a religion is a big thing though, and I think no one should be judged for not wanting to do that.
For preference I would date someone of no religion like myself but I don't rule anyone out on religion. Their attitude has a great deal to do with it. Someone with your attitude would be an instant deal breaker.
As for sex before marriage, crack on if it appeases Mohammed but I personally like to test drive a car before I fork over thousands for it.
I dated a Coptic Christian from Egypt.
I had Once Married a Muslim man out in Egypt, where I had Resided for Awhile.
I am a Christian and he was Allowed to Marry me Here, dear. As for you, no Matter how 'Conservative,' you will have to Marry within your Race or Sadly End up to Be... A Disgrace.
Good Luck. xx
Date a Muslim? If I met a woman who ticked all the boxes, then yes.
Convert to being Muslim? Not a chance. Nothing against the religion, it's just not for me I'm afraid.
Sex after marriage? Depends on the relationship and how it goes I suppose. It would be difficult to not want to if I am physically attracted to my partner though
I won't date a muslim girl simply because I don't believe in muhammad and his religion since I'm a christian and believe in a total different concept. I definitely won't switch my religion just to marry someone of a different religion. I will only date a girl who is christian bevause then religion won't interfere with our relationship
It is a fallacy to think that anyone can convert from one religion to another, unless they do it because of their own change in beliefs. Converting to get married will NEVER work long term.
saving sex until AFTER marriage can be a huge disappointment. If you are not compatible, you either have to put up with an unsatisfactory marriage, or end it and take the consequences of rejecting the guy.
I wouldn't date anyone who is too into their religion, like I'm Catholic and wouldn't date someone who is a Bible Thumper or whatever they call them. Same with muslins or anything else, if they are chill, follow a couple traditions why not, if they are overly religious no. Also i don't want to convert.
I would 99% of the day not date a muslim. I cannot convert no matter what, islam is based on some shit I don't want follow nor my future kids. Most Europeans not saying everyone but most at least above 50% would not convert. And for a second my parents would no accept or agree with it and in matter of fact I wouldn't either.
No, I would not date nor marry a Muslim man.
Obviously I would not convert either.
I find it kinda silly and pointless actually, people converting to religions they were not brought up with just to please someone else.
So you want someone to convert for you?
Why not you convert to him? Oh, right. That's a fucking selfish mindset.
Because her religion requires this. her husband must be a muslim. Do other religions require that? If so, I have no idea.
@turkishgirll1
Then don't date someone who isn't a muslim instead of expecting him/her to convert. The moment she talks about "if he would convert", she is talking incredibly selfish.
If she can explain what Islam really is he would be become a Muslim. Besides if he is not conservative, he can change his religion for his love. These are possibilities. There are many examples of it in the world so we should not talk about like it is nonsensial
@turkishgirll1
Then again: Why would HE have to change his religion instead of her changing?
He don't have to, as I said it is just a requirement to marry. So imagine that both of them didn't change their religion for each other. In time, it causes some problems. So cultural differences can't be so much.
@turkishgirll1
Obviously. So if she expects him to convert, then she is clearly selfish. Either she deals with the different cultural and religious background right away or she refuses to date a non-muslims. But expecting him to date her and then convert is selfish as fuck.
I think waiting to have sex till marriage is great. But converting part, I disagree with you. And this is the reason why, I dated a Muslim guy for 14 years and did everything to please him except convert. With that being said, he dropped me like a hot potato, once he knew I would never convert. He knew I was Christian before we started our relationship and he use to tell me that it didn't bother him that I was Christian. He knew what he was getting into and still presumed me. So I now that I am 36, it's really hard for me to move on and find someone else. To the point were I don't even want to date anyone. So I think the best thing for you to do is to find a Muslim guy and avoid trying to convert a guy just because you like the color of his skin or you'll get in over your head. What one is ingrained with will always be there no matter what.
I can't date overly religious people. Waiting for marriage, and that i am happy where i stand on atheistic beliefs is the primary concerns. If she is open minded and doesn't have any desire to pull me into her religion i don't care what she practices.
No, I will no convert or " join" a religion to marry a girl, it doesn't matter if that is Muslim, Buddhist, Satanic, Christian, Jedi NONE.
I would happily date a Muslim girl if she could accept me as me, but I don't think most religious girl's would accept me.
Sex after marriage is the old fashioned English way.
Mixed race is ok but why should someone have to turn their back on their faith just to marry someone, no one should have to do that.
I prefer sex before marriage as it's a bit like shopping on the internet, if you don't like the goods then you can return them, no harm done.
No. We would be incompatible. I will never convert, and I won't wait till marriage.
Islam is not a race. It is a religious ideology. I would not because of who might be watching from behind the scenes who will want to behead one or both of us.
To know them is to love them. We aren't talking extremists we are talking good people who make up many petroleum and aerospace engineering jobs. Growing up in Space City I knew many Muslim families as well as Arab families that were Catholic.
Hardest thing I had to learn was get used to kindness, take my shoes off, and it's very impolite to say no to a treat but you don't have to eat it all. A bit or no bite will do as long as you accept it.
Would i be willing to learn about Islam for her yes but covert no. Would i wait for sex? A strong maybe i waited for one girl then she slept with the very nice guy but it all depends on her i feel about her. I feel like Muslim. Girls should be able to date who ever they want as long they dont change themselmen For a men.
Never. I find the religion and beliefs to be primitive and archaic (e. g., an eye for an eye, and the sins of a relative are passed on through the generations). That does not align with western values.
That's like asking "Would you date a Scientologist?" To which I answer: no, I would not date someone brainwashed by a cult.
It depends.. I read the quran... they seem insane and I don't like the idea.
But yes I could date a muslim girl BUT without the hijab and the blanket on her head because it's not pretty in my opinion.
And I'm gonna bang her/him whenever that's what I prefer.
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You are pathetic. We all know that under the muslim religion, these people marry outside of their race to breed and to have muslim children.
Why would you want to marry outside your race? There are plenty of muslims available. Stay within your own religion
Mostly not
1. I'm an Atheist
2. I'm dominant and Muslim guys want girls to be submissive
Nope.
No woman is worth me giving up alcohol and bacon
I've seen and head of Muslim men dating non Muslim woman, but never a
Muslim woman dating a non Muslim man. There is a good reason for that because the Quran says it could only be done this way if a Muslim man marries a non Muslim woman.
I have dated Moslem girls. No, I would not convert. And no, they did not wait until marriage to have sex.
There may be country specific rules to the contrary, but Moslems are allowed to marry Christians and Jews without conversions.
@Z-Spark
That depends upon their local traditions, and many of those local traditions are often believed to apply generally when they are not. They are allowed to marry non-Moslem men of the Book.
No it has nothing to do with traditions the religion of islam clearly states that you can't marry someone from another religion if you are a woman, its public knoweldge really all muslim know it and non muslims who live among muslim know it and since i actually come from the middle east i happen to know it too since i know a lot of religious muslims.
@Z-Spark
Since I lived in Los Angeles for decades, I have certainly met more Moslems from all over the world than you have.
Your locale may not allow it, but others do.
@Z-Spark
I didn't say I met more, I said I met from more places.
Did I mention that I speak Indonesian?
I think I also forgot to mention that one of my friends is an Egyptian Islamic scholar. I'll believe him and his PhD. He taught me a great deal of Islamic thought and how it is variously interpreted.
you're too dumb to argue, you're comparing yourself a person living in the west who sees few muslims here and there with someone who lives amongst them, speaks their language, shares the same culture and set of morals as them, your friends dont matter to me, that one friend you have i have dozens to make up for him, if you think you know something i know that x10 times more than you think you do.
believe what you want to believe that doesn't affect me , but like every other western when muslims destroy the west you will be the ones begging them to stop.
@Z-Spark
You still don't get it.
I know well Egyptians, Moroccans, Persians, Indonesians, Malays, Pakistani's, a Bangladeshi, a Moslem Indian, Iraqis, Lebanese, Jordanians, and a Syrian. I know people from other places less well, but I have close friends and girlfriends among those listed.
You make the same mistake Barack Obama did. He grew up in Jakarta and thought he knew all Moslems based on what he knew of those living in Jakarta. He made a grave error. Many Middle Easterners, for example, do not believe it is ok for a Moslem woman to marry a non-Moslem, unlike many in Jakarta who believe it is more a personal choice that can be accommodated.
Contrary to what you and Obama think, Islam is not monolithic. It has a wide range of beliefs and traditions.
you got this wrong obama's dad is actually a muslim and if you closely watch his actions and what he done as a president, who he supported its obvious he did actually love muslims, sure he fked syria, iraq and some other countries but the US has been doing that for years, but as a person he liked muslims, he even had a ring with the word allah on it.
iam sure different places have different traditions but we're not talking about traditions here we're talking about religious rules, and islam states that a female can only marry a muslim, i've asked religious muslims who pray daily and they say that yes it's true a muslim woman can't marry a non muslims.
i lived here long enough to understand their way or life, their thinking what they want from life, the people you know are people living thousands of miles away from home in a weird enviroment , try seeing them in their natural habitat, and you will understand what does being a muslim mean.
your words dont convince me at all, how can they when i actually live in the most controversial part of the world , the place where all three religions came to be, and i get to interact with people of the 3 major religions plus members of other smaller religions, everywhere you go muslims are disliked by non muslims, no one loves or their ways , and for a good reason islam is outdated and violent, thats not a secret anymore , muslims admit this themselves and they are proud to be part of it they dont even mind the slightest which i find weird... but hey iam not them
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Typically, I think there isn't too many people that understand that if one wants to hook-up with a Muslim,, they need to be prepared to convert, if that is possible.
So no I would never consider dating a Muslim.
Yes, because I'm Muslim and I have to obey Islamic guidelines.
I think for me sex should be after marriage cause I want that feeling that they won't ever leave me. And Islamic Guidelines.
But I don't think sex before marriage is necessarily a bad thing for some people but for me I think it's not really preferred.
(I'm sorry if this doesn't make sense)
Oh no, cause all muslims are terrorists. Just like all latinos are criminals😒
What difference does it make of what race you are? When you connect with someone, that's the only thing that matters. The morons these days
>race
>Islam
Not this shit again.
Yes, and it's a retarded point.
I would date someone who is Muslim without hesitation. And I have 0 trouble waiting until after marriage for sex. I don't think I could convert though. I'm pretty much an atheist.
Same here bro, pretty much same with everything you wrote, except I'm both, Atheist/believe in a god :/
as long as she is a liberal muslim and is fine with me being an atheist. There are liberal muslims take londons mayor sadiq khan who gets death threats for being to liberal. Not going to deny islamic terrorism is a huge problem in the world and i think every isis member deserves a 100 bullets but it all depends i meet a muslim girl who didn't wear a headscarf i guess but it all depends
I would never, since i've been born i've always been an atheist and there's many reasons why i'll never convert for anyone. Sex saved for marriage is too much, i'd probably die of having my balls strangulated
No, i consider your religion to be evil and i base that purely on the i must be converted part. I do not want my children to be raised under religion as i find most religion to have evil roots.
I'm borderline atheist.
So no I can't date a religious person of any religion- not even my birth religion.
And converting is out of question because I can't associate myself any religion.
No, I would never marry a Muslim.
**My reasons why**
•I am Pentecostal Christian. I would not convert.
•My family will not approve of him.
I don't mind being friends with a Muslim person, but as far a dating goes, no...
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