Do you think God can still give me a husband of I never leave the house due to lockdowns?

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At my old job - I talked to a lot of people so getting opportunities to date was easier - now I have only talked to one unmarried male who might have been interested in dating me since lock down happened and I got laid off from my job. I also do not believe the guy is right for me and I’m not sure why - I just do not feel right about it. I don’t know how I will find a husband if I do not leave the house and do not make new connections.

GoodManDave · Accepted Answer

Is it possible? Sure. But I would think it's unlikely.

I doubt some dude will show up at your house by accident and boom, you hit it off... the likelihood of that happening isn't high.

If you never go out, and you never do anything social, and you have hidden yourself away, even if there are men out there who are single, available, and interested, past a certain point, they'll move on. I know I get tired of putting a lot of work into friendships where it feels one sided, let alone trying to meet someone for a romantic relationship.

There has to be some effort, as much as you can do, to try to socialize. Zoom dates. Spend time with friends online, more than just doing Facebook or Twitter. LIVE conversations. Meet new people. I doubt it will "just happen" unless you put in some of the effort. Maybe do online dating. Or get a friend to set you up with someone. Otherwise, it isn't likely. You shouldn't obsess, but you do have to put yourself out there in whatever ways you can, which will improve your chances. It may not be a guarantee, but it will be helpful.

kkirk4442 · Accepted Answer

There are not enough men around for "God to give every woman a husband." That doesn't mean you won't have a husband, but it does mean, that some women will not have a husband.

Floppy2112 · Answer

While anything is possible, your odds sure go down if you don't go out. You are not going to find a man in your house, maybe online, but whatever online dating was, has taken a nosedive.
To get an outcome you want, you have to try. That goes for anything including finding your husband. God may give you one and He may not. But if you don't try, your likely outcomes are more likely to be not.
These lockdowns have destroyed our society in ways we are not even yet aware of. We will be reeling from this for years.

Jjpayne · Answer

I think it's still possible. There are new things happening soon with the vaccines and I heard something about July 4th for that us but all that to say. Go to a random supermarket or shopping place and start scoping people out. Then try talking to them causally about what they are buying.

Try going to churches other than yours to visit. See what the single options look like there

Rab1901 · Answer

Well, yes, God can do anything... but he's not going to do everything for you. I always advise people to go after what they want and work/hope instead of wait/hope.

zagor · Answer

How badly do you want to find a husband? There are websites so that you don't have to wait around until lockdowns are all in the past. Even one for Christian Singles, which based on your posting history I would assume would be the best fit for you.

WesBrewer · Answer

Anything possible, but it’s not likely, just wait out the pandemic and go out and make friends and stuff.

Ez-Bri-Z · Answer

I think God can set a path for you and him, but free will means you both have to choose to take it and follow it. I know going out is going to be hard right now, but there are other ways to walk that path set by God.

BoobMan · Answer

I wouldn't recommend ordering a husband for delivery. You're best off getting out of the house to shop for one in person.

Xyglo27 · Answer

Work on yourself, improve your personality, improve your physique, learn to cook & be a good wife & you'll definitely find a good husband. Have faith in the universe & keep moving forward.

najekim · Answer

Religious dogma has nothing to do with finding a spouse. Only sometimes looking for a future spouse works. Most the time it's because you're not looking at that time you find them.

jshm2 · Answer

Why the hell do you think he should punish a man with that sentence?

Walt832 · Answer

Awwww so innocent by the question.  Nope at home nope. Unless, your yard man is single 🤭.

Caunsos · Answer

God no. But you can find one your self. Dating apps, social media, virtual dates. It possible to start a new relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

God ain't giving you shit. Gotta find a man by yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

Pray, Go outside periodically, go to Church, and continue to seek God's instruction. If you trust in God he will bring you peace, with or without a spouse.

Shy_Steve · Answer

I think It's still possible if you occasionally see hi, I want to get a Girlfriend myself but it is just harder now for all of us.

FruitAndBlueEyes · Answer

With God, all things are possible. I say yes, you can find someone.

queenish_ · Answer

God always makes way at the right time☺

Anonymous · Answer

The quarterback looking lady is going to have to wait like everybody else

Twalli · Answer

You can find one, it'll be nearly impossible though

Shihab91 · Answer

Everything is possible, and yes try to go out more. Good luck

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