Is a sin for a widow to remarry if she has kids?

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GoodManDave · Accepted Answer

What context?

Assuming, since you said “sin” that you mean a Judeo Christian belief system… I can sort of speak from a Christian standpoint, so I’ll do that here:

in the Bible:

A wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.1 Corinthians 7:39 ESVSo I don’t think the Bible sees a widow remarrying as sin, whether or not she has kids. Not knowing a lot about how other religions view widows remarrying, you’d have to ask someone who knows their stuff. I would say that the Bible seems to recognize this as “allowed” and not a sin. Hope this helps.

razelove · Accepted Answer

No, not at all. Depending on how old your kids are you might want to talk to them before you get back into dating. Looking at the age range you have listed that's unlikely though. Mourn for as long as you need to, make sure you're doing what you want to do, and not what others tell you is "right".

Figure out what you need, what you want, and try to move forwards with that. On the flip side of things, you don't want to show your kids that a good way to live is by guilting yourself into being unhappy. Regardless of dating or remarrying, live and learn to be happy for them if not yourself.

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

Certainly not.

The only "sin" if you want to call it that, would be if a woman remarries to a man who doesn't genuinely doesn't care for her children and if the children don't like the man.

If a woman has children, she needs to consider if a man is going to be a good father, as well as a good husband. And be very careful that this man is not some kind of child abuser. There are many unsavory step parents who have sexual interests in children.

If you child gives you any kind of fears about a potential mate, listen to them. Be cautious with yourself and your children.

Texasgal95 · Accepted Answer

From my understanding of the Bible as a Christian it is it wrong because your spouse has passed I have a prime example my grandfather he remarried and it was a year after my grandmother passed but my mom and her siblings just wanted their dad to be happy again

Whatever2929292 · Answer

No it is not a sin to do that. If you find someone new who makes you happy then great. But you have to keep in mind that this person will have to understand the heartbreak that you went through.

He is in heaven waiting on you but you won't be married in heaven I don't know what will happen after the second coming of Jesus but as of right now.

If you find someone special or your other soulmate that I hope and pray God has out there for you somewhere then you can and should remarry there is nothing wrong with that.

Your former husband I think would want you to be happy right now. While he is in heaven not even thinking about this life. Wouldn't he? He would want you to be happy

TheLoneTerran · Answer

Why would your deity want you to live a more difficult life being a single parent? If they are real and are actually all loving, they'd want you to be happy yes? And if they don't exist, then you're all good to go too. I wouldn't take scripture too literally, many religions believe their deity is an example of perfection and we already know humans make mistakes. So someone may have written down or translated incorrectly.

If your deity loves you, they'll want you and your kids to be as happy, healthy, and comfortable as possible, and if that comes about by remarrying, then so be it.

Adronicus · Answer

I would tell my girl beforehand that if anything ever happens to me I'd want her to find love again & be happy. What kinda guy gets off on her moping about him the rest of her days? = A possessive one not worth investing in.

Personally I never want to have my own kids even though I seem to be great with them, I have a large family. I'd definitely get with a woman with 1-2 if I thought she was worth investing in & if I was single.

As far as sin goes the vow is "Till death do we part". Thats a release if I ever heard one.

Exterminatore · Answer

It is never a sin for a widow to remarry.

“A wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.”
‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭7:39‬ ‭ESV‬‬
However, you must marry another Christian if you choose to marry again.

SolitarySolace · Answer

I think if her husband had passed and she wasn’t a total bitch he would want her to be happy while on earth before meeting him in heaven. Maybe she should consider finding a man who’s wife had also passed. That way when he passes he will be able to be with his wife again in heaven instead of being alone there.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

No… but it depends how much time has passed since the passing of the father of her children. Also depending on how long she was married to him.

For example.

If she was married to him for many years, say 10+ years. And she immediately looks for a replacement without being single for a few years? That says a lot about the woman.

Guy13 · Answer

No, it is not a Sin for a widow to remarry. (1 Corinthians 7:39) days “A wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if husband dies, she is free to be married to whom she wishes,, only in the Lord.”

Humanity2 · Answer

Of course not, one of my cousins married to a widow with a kid. Mainly cause he was financially struggling and wasn't getting any offers for arrange marriage ( which is common in India)

Keyboardkat · Answer

Why on earth would it be a sin? Of course not! If she finds someone who is compatible, and will love her children and help raise them and be a dad to them, why not?

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Is that a serious question?  How on earth could it be considered a sin if the new guy she marries is happy to marry her, and her kids like the guy too?

AviatorTom · Answer

No, that's not a sin, her husband has died, which ends their marriage contract. It's actually a good thing because it's important that her children have a father-figure.

Reaper1985 · Answer

Most marriage vows are “until death due us part” so remarrying after your spouse passes away is not a legal issue. However depending on your beliefs it might be a gray area.

MagicCarpet1 · Answer

Only to divorcees or widowed men. A virgin man deserves a virgin wife for a functional healthy family that lasts forever.

ChooChooHaha · Answer

No. And even if it is, I'd like to think it's ranked pretty low on the 'Sin List.' I'd like to also think God's forgiving and most merciful.

Daniela1982 · Answer

Not a widow. It is not permitted for a divorced woman/man to remarry as they will be committing adultery. This doesn't apply to non Christians.

slatyb · Answer

No, because sin isn't real. Besides I'm not aware of any religious denomination that prohibits remarriage of widows and widowers.

Anonymous · Answer

If the kids like him Such as a step dad I know who loves his step daughters and they love him back, it’s as if he’s their real dad even though they didn’t know him for many years of their lives

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

No. It isn't a sin for a widow to remarry period, kids or not.

Lionman95 · Answer

No because her former marriage ended spiritually with her man dying so she´s free to marry again.

SnakeBoop · Answer

depends on if you follow some stupid religion or not.

Blackcupcake · Answer

not as far as I know but I’m not religious so I don’t think I am a reliable source in this matter lol

Iron_Man · Answer

I guess not but it makes it very complicated on judgment day and the the first time you meet your husband in a while once again it’s like two husbands now what

HaveNoName · Answer

Not in the religion I follow as long as she completes a period of 4 lunar months and 10 days after the husband's passing away to have any interaction with that person.

altaboy · Answer

Of course not! It would be good for the kids. It would give them a better chance to have a better life too. Being a single mom is tough. More importantly, finding love is good for a family.

Avicenna · Answer

No, but it’s dumb for a man to marry a woman with kids

jshm2 · Answer

No, don't be daft. What else do men do? Adopt them instead?

nawtee_me · Answer

It is not a sin for a "Widow" to remarry. If your husband died leaving you and your children it is not a sin for you to remarry. If you are divorced and remarry then you commit adultery.

sheikalana · Answer

Not at all! She has the right to continue with her life.

LindsayR07 · Answer

No, the old testament even makes specific provisions for this.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

No; of course it's not a sin. The remarrying of widows was actually encouraged in the Bible.

kinggeorge007 · Answer

No, as long as the kids are treated well. There's no problem.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

No. The vows say till death do us part, so once once partner dies the vows are gone.

Anonymous · Answer

If Jesus was alive he would tell you no. But religion might tell you something else.

UpdateGloomyNights_ · Answer

According to Islamic law, if one of the spouses dies, the marriage is annulled and that person can remarry with whoever she wants, but " after three months for women".

laillah · Answer

I honestly think a widow should put her children first, but as humans it's also our right to want relationships and love. If she can manage her children and her love life go for it honey 😊

Baylay · Answer

This is 21st century. Which era are you from by the way?

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

This is so sinful, the devil will get on his knees begging for mercy

Philyouup · Answer

What? there are no sins. love is love. if it’s honest.

Jackblue · Answer

No, not in Christianity or Judiasm. I think Islam is ok with that too.

Pudsmucker · Answer

Personally I don't think so. You go girl, kids need a papa

ManHater · Answer

YES. No man wants to take care of another mans problems.

driven159 · Answer

No everyone deserves to be happy why would anyone not want that for every person

NYlatefun · Answer

It depends on your religion I guess, I’m an atheist so

Anonymous · Answer

Nope, you are only married until death separates you. If your husband dies, you are allowed to remarry. Though dating with kids isn't easy for women. So good luck.

OddBeMe · Answer

a sin would mean there's a moral higher power and there's just no evidence of that.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

no but any men dat go for women with kids need help.

MrTaboo · Answer

No. Infact I'd say it's encouraged for the sake of the kids.

Anonymous · Answer

The view is 'til death. Pretty straight-forward. Can't be a sin if the vow was fulfilled.

achilljoeythor · Answer

I don't know if it is, but it shouldn't be. We ALL have free will and should be able to choose who we date/marry whenever we want.

Zygum · Answer

In Islam, a widowed woman can marry even she has kids, Islam encourages such marriage

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

No. It's only a sin for a divorced woman to remarry.

rainn_stalker · Answer

I don't know what are your beliefs.. but in christianity it's not a sin

jimmy2 · Answer

No it's death to we apart so her loved died that God's way

Anonymous · Answer

No. But it IS a sin to divorce your spouse for reasons OTHER than unfaithfulness

EmmaMary · Answer

Not in the slightest, why should it be?

Anonymous · Answer

The premise of this question is ridiculous. It’s never a sin for a widow to remarry. 😔

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Why would you think it might be a sin?

Spotifyplaylist · Answer

Absolutely nothing wrong with that!

WhitneySnow · Answer

I am almost certain it’s not

DermalPunch · Answer

No, of course not. How ridiculous!

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