Do you enjoy aloneness?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

It’s a cozy night in Shanghai. I opened my old notebook and read some of my poetry from the past life when I wrote them.

Everything that I feel now, I have already felt sometime in the past. It feels like having a conversation with my younger self, who has captured beautiful thoughts of her into melodious words and kept it for me to read in time of wanting.

I read those poems, listen to the music and I feel peaceful, looking out at the sky and breathing in deeply.

I am alone and I don’t feel lonely. This a peaceful and relaxing moment.

I can see myself looking back to this very evening somewhere from the perspective of the future and thinking “I was so happy, peaceful, it was so beautiful.”

Why do most people need to be with someone necessary in order to not feel lonely?

Because, I am here by myself and I can’t imagine doing anything more enjoyable than what I am doing right now. Thinking, reading, singing along quietly, listening to soothing music and yet again feeling how alive I am and how perfect it is, to be right here, as I am. I feel the perfect peacefulness. I feel like having myself right here is the most romantic thing I could do tonight.

Do you notice and appreciate such moments?

Here’s a song I listened a few minutes ago, you might like it as well.

[molonski2]

You can of course have a person there and still be lonely.

I also enjoy quiet time , not answering to anyone , looking out into the incredible view of the coconut trees in the moonlight and light , over the 80 metre long pool , and think " Gee you know , this is a pretty incredible place I'm in " .

[Andres77]

I’m enjoying the quiet.

[Andres77]

Enjoying a nightcap of absenthe with lemonade ice cubes…and then I’ll drink my hibiscus tea with cinnamon and nutmeg.

[TiaNour]

Sometimes I do but then other people will think I’m sad or sumn 😂

[ShesRad80]

for the most part yes, im a lone wolf

[Iron_Man]

No, I think it absolutely sucks. It can make you suicidal. Especially after being around a big family always doing things and traveling having family around then one day you’re by yourself alone think about it

[BobbieBoy666]

At the moment I'm enjoying my aloneness. 💞

It's Monday 9:25 am and I'm having nude time this morning. 💞💞

[Friendlybro79]

I do every so often. I think many people benefit from taking a day for themselves

[Lokiion]

Yeah I like being by myself bot saying you can’t be lonely with people around you

[KrakenAttackin]

Being with the wrong person is far worse than being lonely.

[Andres77]

Proverbs 21:9.
American Standard Version
It is better to dwell in the corner of the housetop, Than with a contentious woman in a wide house

[KrakenAttackin]

@Andres77 Absolute truth. Islam says that Hell is mostly filled with ungrateful wives.

[Andres77]

Well, the allah of islam is a demon prince.

[Christoff92]

Yes. It gives me time to analyze and observe the World that I live in 😀

[Likes2drive]

Sometimes but I get plenty of it except where I want it

[Alex8736]

I think everyone enjoys aloneness to catch up on their thoughts. I call it "me time "

[exitseven]

I do like my alone time. I am done with my chores and just sitting on my front porch watching people walk by.

[Jmmmfi4]

I think I spent far to much time alone and it's not good for my mental health

[legalboxers]

I enjoy being alone.

[andy530]

Yes I really need time alone sometimes

[LavLavLuv]

Ya most of the time

[Anonymous]

Love it