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With so many options available to women, many young girls have the mindset that men are replaceable.

They will flake on you if another guy gives her a better offer even if she made a promise to go on date. They will dump you if they are sure that another male who she deems better than you wants a relationship with her and not just a booty call.

Some girls have the sadistic pleasure of leading guys on and thinking they are interested in them when they just want attention then go ghost, once they get a boyfriend.
While dating for men tends to be a numbers game. Average guys usually has to approach A LOT of girls and find one that is willing to go on a date with him.
After which the guy will be more emotional invested and chase the girl because he doesn't know when he's going to get another girl he likes to say yes. So you find men tend to form emotional connection faster, and become almost a bit obsess in wanting to be with the girl.

Men tend to take relationships and dating more serious than women even during the early phases of courtship. Hence, why you'll never see a girl get bent out of shape at an average guy cutting contact with her.

And when the girl flakes on him, goes no contact or even dumps him it tends to hurt men a lot more than it does women because it was more an investment for men than women and women can always find another you.
Remember, woman often post break up can find a new man within a week or even month. A guy will be back to ground zero.

Many young men get strung up on a girl who rejected them, or ghosted on them or even dump them and can't seem to get over the girl for months and years. This kind of thing can eat at a guy's heart until he hardens his heart.
With that being said should more men begin adopting women are replaceable mentality and stop thinking a girl is special? In this way if a girl does any of this shit he can shrug it off his shoulders and stop trying to fight for a girl who thinks of him as backup option at best.

A few nights ago I had a good conversation with a Uber driver on my ride home after listening to some live Christmas music downtown. I honestly was depressed I couldn’t find a girl to go with me. But it’s a personal tradition to listen to Christmas jazz. I am glad I went anyway

Anyway about the conversation. The Uber driver was a younger guy in his 20s who used to run a contractor business but it went under during covid and he drives Ubers full time. He told me he completely given up on dating and doesn’t use social media or dating apps. He has been single for 4 years. He wasn’t some overweight slob either. Not a trouble maker. Decent looking young light skinned African American man. Seems like some girl would appreciate him but he quit.

Anyway we both shared experiences about how we both once out in a lot of effort into dating that was very under-appreciated by women and then quit. There was a study done that over 60% of men under 30 are single now.

However most young women who answered this survey claimed to not be single. Either they are (or a combination of) 1) dating older men 2) in causal relationship they claim “is a relationship” when the man feels differently 3) not in a relationship at all but lying about (virtual “relationships” are complete bs)

Anyway let’s forget about men for a second. How are young women dealing with all of this? They are supposed to be more “free and empowered” but are they really happy in modern times? Statistically young women are reporting very high rates of depression:

https://www.wfxrtv.com/news/health/depression-rates-skyrocket-women-and-young-adults-hit-hardest-gallup-poll/amp/

https://www.statista.com/statistics/252323/major-depressive-episode-among-us-youths-by-gender-since-2004/

My theory is young women have been indoctrinated in a lot of modern feminism brainwashing that brings them a lot of short term benefits but long term misery.