Search Results: how do i tell him to stop

“All men are trash.”
“Men need to stop killing women.”
“Men need to stop raping women.”

And if you think generalising men like this is wrong, you’re told: only the men who do these things should be offended.

Okay, then:

“Black people need to stop committing crimes.”
“Muslims need to stop being terrorists.”
“Women need to stop being gold diggers.”

Not all Black people.
Not all Muslims.
Not all women.

All valid arguments, apparently—but not when it comes to men. Why are you allowed to say “men need to stop” etc., but can’t say that about anyone or anything else, and then claim that only people who do those things should be offended?

I feel really alone after cutting my family off.. I’m realizing that you can’t heal from the same environment that broke you and it kept me in a bind for years because they heavily supported me and I was doing well until one day I really needed their support and I realized that I didn’t matter?

I was talking to a man I was head over heels for and he didn’t want me. We stopped dating and I was so depressed for a year and I just didn’t want to live and I told my mom about it and then my cousin… I told my cousin everything and she goes behind my back to talk to him

My cousin lives with my mom and I tell her that I think something is going on and my mom just ignores me or says “so what do you want me to do about it “ or she says “I’m sure there’s things that you’ve done “… so it felt like a knife in my chest fr… because it feels like I’ve been betrayed twice

And to this day I don’t know how to move on from it and everyone is saying let them fall in love etc and move on… I feel gaslit by my family over the situation…