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I was sexually assaulted in the waiting line in a grocery shop by an Ukrainian refugee, he grinded on me, at first I thought I was imagining things or that maybe it's normal in his country to stay very close in waiting line but when I felt his breathing growing very heavy on my neck / ear and felt him lean on me more and more I had no doubt anymore but did not fight back, I just moved of line.

Does it count as sexual assault since I did not say anything? Should I even bother to do anything? I do not want to be a mean person as I know Ukraine is at war and ptds and stuff and crazy but it did really made me uncomfortable too I was alone and he was with 3 others Ukrainian men (I'm guessing they were all friends or they were together during army service, my country train Ukrainian soldier and there's a military base near where I live). So if I say anything I have no one on my side and he have three people, also I feel bad for them I don't want them to be hurt or anything but what the guy did is not good.

30f and I really can’t tell if I’m inevitably single because I don’t want a relationship or it’s a case of self sabotage. Within the past few years, the only attention I’ve gotten from attractive guys were on dating apps. But that should be taken with a grain of salt, I feel like compared to the average woman, I don’t get attention from quality guys in person. I’m pretty shy and tend to speak when spoken to, on top of bad anxiety, I’ll say I question if women can relate to my lack of sex drive. I haven’t had sex since my early twenties/don’t masturbate and couldn’t care less if I died a virgin, will feel some kind of way if I’ve never found love though.

It’s as if I want the reassurance I’m desirable (from what seems like decent men) vs actually going out on dates, I’m insecure but wouldn’t just go for anyone that gives me the time of day. I just don’t get why it can’t ever go my way w/ the OLD apps, it’s likely bad luck but a pattern of: ghosting, fizzling out, the convo not flowing to my expectations & I dip out, just lack of interest (can go both ways) etc. I’m attracted to men, I really don’t think id date a woman but something about men at the same time turns me off (physically & personality wise). Like almost every woman I've known has been boy crazy since they were pre-teens and I never got it, I thought they were exaggerating or I was a late bloomer. Well here I am 2 decades later, my closest thing to boy crazy were celebrity crushes.

Am I looking for excuses to justify being single? Is it simply a case of being unlucky? Is there more to unpack here? Or is the right guy all it takes for it to fall into place?