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Search Results: feelings for the person you once loved
Male colleagues actions are they sign of something more or a friend?
One of my friends at work has hinted for months that he likes me. Everyone that sees us together can see him flirting, or thought we were dating but keeping it a secret. He is very caring for me, messages frequently on...
Anonymous
(25-29) The road not taken: Dealing with the choices in life we regret!
My apologies ahead of time for those who had a mini panic attack thinking they had been whisked back to high school English courses and needing to write essays on Robert Frost. I assure you that while there will be an...
Ez-Bri-Z
Editor Age: 46 Was I worse than the guy who was a jerk to me?
My plan was to continue dating guys for weeks or months and then ditch them, never develop feelings for them, avoid serious topics, etc. I used to ghost some online guys after a while and even gave a false address and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it okay to tell an ex who tries to contact you that you are aware that they cheated on you?
The last time me and this person spoke we were on good terms and they vanished because they were “going through something” only for me to later find out that they had started up a new relationship with another girl. To...
Anonymous
(25-29) The True Origin and Intent of the Term 'INCEL'
Okay, so I came across another #INCEL question (this one asked by a presumably self-labelled INCEL, but it was not specified), and frankly, the responses prompted this take. Some things need to be clarified. Let me first...
Can you date someone you can't enjoy life with?
Okay, I love my boyfriend and for the person that he is but I just feel like i truly cannot enjoy life with him. Anything that's thrilling or fun I try to go to. Zip lining, roller coasters, etc other activities. While...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why don't I love him the way he loves me? He's such a great guy for me. Why don't I feel anything?
There's plenty of questions I could ask right now that surround this topic, like Can love ever be rational? The guy I'm talking about is one I'm actually seeing right now, without the official relationship title. I don't...
angel39373
Xper 3 Age: 33 The Perfect Girl (Thoughts of a 19-year old)
I keep finding questions on this site along the lines of: What's your ideal girl? What personality traits should they have? Or what do men really find attractive?, and it's really a tough question. First of all,...
iluvtoknow
Xper 6 Age: 24 Why it hurts to lie to my parents all the time
As I've outlined more than once now, I'm in a delicate situation where I can't tell my parents about the fact that my boyfriend lives with me and we'll soon move in officially (see this post for more: How telling my...
tallandsweet
Editor Age: 24 I Met a Girl Who Never Trusts Anyone Real Because She Backstabbed More Than Once so She Started to Chat with Online Guys and I have Feelings for Her?
Hey, I need quick help because my head is full of this problem. I met a girl via my mothers connections. Weve become close after a while then she told me about everything that she went through. She is a lovely girl...
Anonymous
(30-35) Am I the asshole for not wanting friends?
I ended up talking to a girl, to be fair she's way out of my league, for a month and a half. I really fell for her. Probably WAY too quick. I tend to do that. But I really ended up liking her a lot. I'd call her beautiful...
InventorofWarp
Xper 7 Age: 29 Fellow Americans... What's up with our political parties?
Lefties are blinded by the ideology that love triumphs over hatred. IT. DOESN'T. We didn't love the British in 1776, we didn't love the Nazis in WW2. And the irony is, they're all about loving one another when they hate...
NightHawk99
Xper 6 Age: 26 My ex asks me if I still loved him, but he doesn’t make time for me, why?
So I will explain my story here. My ex and I were broken up for around four months of no contact, and he blocked me. We broke up cause I said something that hurt him, so I just moved on with my life and did not think he...
GAnaymous
Xper 3 Age: 27 Hiding your "real" personality from your family
I only realised how much I hid and continue to hide from my parents recently. I think almost everyone does this, so feel free to share your thoughts and experiences below! #1 Music taste I never shared too much of my...
tallandsweet
Editor Age: 24 Am I too obsessive for guys?
I am the type of girl who will not make guy bestfriend. Sorry, I don't believe in pure friendship unless one of us is gay. I am a traditional person. I make sure that my boyfriend knows that I am all his. I am also a...
Anonymous
(18-24) Taking a Chance: How Monopoly taught me to be a better parent.
I am kind of a nerd at heart and I am pretty proud of it too. I collect board games and video games for fun. I have game consoles going back to the Atari and Colecovision all the way up through the last gen systems, but...
Ez-Bri-Z
Editor Age: 46 "Girls Don't Know What They Want [in Relationships]": The Real Reasons Behind This Male-Created Myth
This is the first in a series of articles I'll be writing debunking some commonly-held myths about dating, society and life. Myths are beliefs - widely-held but false and erroneous conclusions. They make sense, they're...
!["Girls Don't Know What They Want [in Relationships]": The Real Reasons Behind This Male-Created Myth](https://cf.girlsaskguys.com/a65780/thumb-672-378.jpg "\"Girls Don't Know What They Want [in Relationships]\": The Real Reasons Behind This Male-Created Myth")
What do I do in this situation? I am stuck between two people and I have unclear feelings?
It's a bit long, so please bear with me. So, I have been a part of group of 3 friends, since 3 years. Last year, Jess ( one of them) started feeling for me. He confessed this year, and after taking some time (3 months)...
Anonymous
(25-29) What do I have to do with my emotionally unavailable crush?
I've met a guy online: we didn't have expectations when we started to talk but we both felt a lot of chemistry since the first messages. I chat with a lot of people daily but I rarely have such a connection (he's an INTJ...
Me_and_Myself
Xper 5 Age: 29 My "Ridiculous Life Timeline" is Actually Going To Work Out How I Planned
I began developing my life timeline in high school. I've only realized in this past year that I may be a bit of a perfectionist, but anyways, that results in feeling the need to have a solid, laid out plan for the future....
Anonymous
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