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So basically my girlfriend enjoys playfully wrestling with me, which I don’t really care for I prefer nice touching with her. However she’s failed to respect my boundary here and continues to “play” fight where she will be very rough and complain if I do anything back to her.

Well she ended up slapping my balls, not very hard but it still hurt and I’ve told her many times I don’t like that even as a joke. So this time I just reflexively spanked her really hard and it shocked her and instantly made her start crying. It was only a single slap on her ass but it was enough.

The weird thing was after a few minutes of crying she started hugging me and apologizing a lot. She got spanked a lot as a kid, so maybe physical punishment is the only thing she takes seriously, I don’t know.

Anyways even though I did feel bad for hurting her, it felt good to finally feel respected by her and gave me ideas for how to deal with her behavior in the future.

Did I go too far and was it wrong to put my hands on her like that at all?

I typically don’t. If they’ve made up their mind, then why fight it?

Most recently, a woman text me after 4 dates saying that it was really nice getting to know me, but she didn’t think we’re a good fit for each other, she knows that I’ll find what I’m looking for, and that I’m such a great kisser. I never responded. It was such a shock to me because we were making out at my house the night before and our conversations were going great. Some people said that I should’ve responded politely to end on good terms, while others said I did the right thing by not replying.

Another time, a few years back, a woman rejected me after a couple of dates by texting me she was so sorry, but she wanted to get back with her ex. I never responded, but mutual friends have sent me tweets that she put out about me and most recently she’s been appearing in my suggested on Instagram (does that mean she’s viewing my profile?). In the tweets she’s complained about not getting closure and that she’s had people die without saying bye. I think she has anxiety or something. So why not text/call me again then if you care so much?

Overall, I don’t think it’s worth it. It’s different by doing the rejection in person or via phone call.