Search Results: how can you tell

1 mo

In your opinion, what actually defines a successful life, once you strip away everything society tells you it should be?

We’re often taught that success is money, status, education, relationships, or having a family. And for most people, that becomes the default definition without much question. But I keep wondering, if all of that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

1 mo

Does my guy coworker like me as more than just a friend?

A while back a guy at work called Ollie randomly started talking to me. We’d never really spoken before, so I was surprised by how friendly and polite he was. He asked if I’d had any further training yet and said we’d...

Anonymous

(25-29)

1 mo

My boyfriend baked a cake for his female coworker but won’t make me tea—am I overreacting?

One of the things we have been arguing about as of recently is a lack of effort to show me he loves me. We’ve been together for 7 years. Some backstory, he woke up early this morning, at 6AM, to go to the grocery store...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Education & Career

1 mo

Who else thinks these Bell to Bell phone bans in school are stupid?

i’m always gonna keep my phone on me on silent. My high school has no right to tell me I can’t keep it on me.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

1 mo

I am a rape survivor and my boyfriend has a rape fantasy. Can someone explain the attraction to this kind of fantasy?

In 2014 I was sexually assaulted and almost murdered by a boyfriend. I have C-PTSD from that. I didn’t date after that for well over a decade until I met my current boyfriend. We’ve been together for a year and things...

Anonymous

(36-45)

1 mo

Is a business lying about a broken card machine an illegal bait and switch?

Our b&b owner wants to force us to pay cash so he is pretending his credit card machine is broken. Our church used to visit Vietnamese Pho noodle restaurants that told us they accepted credit card and after we were done...

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41

Relationships

1 mo

Should I fight for my long-distance boyfriend or give him space?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year. Recently we became long distance and started arguing more often. He says he feels emotionally tired and wants to be alone for now. He also told me that he still cares...

Anonymous

(18-24)

1 mo

What can I do about a security guard who followed me and demanded my number?

The shopping centre I always go to after University has this one huge tall muscular hairy South-Asian, maybe early 30s man that I am lowkey really terrified of, and I'm not talking just appearance, but he stares in a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Entertainment & Arts

1 mo

LOL, how accurate is this AI take on my old brood war strategies?

So I asked the Google AI why the present-day Code S Zerg players spam hydralisks all game long vs Protoss Zealot/Dragoon builds, since Zerglings are actually nearly twice as cost-effective as hydralisks. The AI pointed to...

SeekerOfTruth007

Xper 7 Age: 45

1 mo

Should I stay no contact with a guy who lied and treated me like a rebound?

I started talking to this guy 1 month and I thought we were becoming really good friends. Very quickly though it became super intense. He would call me every morning and night, we would do sleep calls, flirt, constantly...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Other

1 mo

What main character can you most relate to right now?

For me, it's Carrie Bradshaw from Sex in the City and I hate it. I found my Mr. Big and I feel like a fool for continuing on this crazy ride with him. Last night, he told me that he loves me which he hasn't said in a...

Simslover92

Master Age: 34

1 mo

How can I reassure my insecure long-distance boyfriend that I only want him?

My long distance boyfriend recently expressed that he is worried that I will find someone closer to me. He said that he wants to be with me forever, but understands if I don’t want to wait on him to move to my city. He...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

1 mo

Does my close female friend like me or am I misreading the signs?

So, a girl I am friends with for about a year and a half is becoming different. I think she likes me. In the past few months, she's always been sending me selfies, talking the best convos, and when I told her I'm studying...

Anonymous

(25-29)

1 mo

What is your opinion on this?

I have a cousin. She met a Turkish man on a marriage website, and after talking for a while, the man bought her a ticket and they met in Turkey. Three days later, my cousin returned, and the man also paid for her return...

Anonymous

(36-45)

1 mo

I told you so last week. why don't you take me seriously?

"Images from the Copernicus Sentinel satellites showed the oil slick is 45 square kilometers. "Satellite imagery, show a major oil spill off Iran’s Kharg Island. The slick appears visually consistent with oil,” said...

strateguy632

Master Age: 50

1 mo

What do you want to tell the person you're crushing on but just can't?

Anonymous responses only.

Anonymous

(36-45)

1 mo

What does it mean if someone says I give them goosebumps just by talking and eye contact?

A guy I’ve been talking to for a while told me I give him goosebumps. I’m the only one to give him goosebumps. Is this a good thing or not? What could it mean?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

1 mo

If you’re not attracted to them, why is flirting still so fun?

Someone you aren't getting something for free from, like a hairstylist. You are paying them and tipping them. But you still like to flirt. Why is that fun? Occasionally you will get someone that takes you seriously and...

Parakeeta

Xper 7 Age: 32