What main character can you most relate to right now?

[Simslover92]

For me, it's Carrie Bradshaw from Sex in the City and I hate it. I found my Mr. Big and I feel like a fool for continuing on this crazy ride with him.

Last night, he told me that he loves me which he hasn't said in a very long time and yet still doesn't want to commit to me again.

I just don't understand him.

[bobalife]

I’m sorry it is difficult when you care about someone but I think it’s important to think about you first.. your happiness, worth, and respect. He’s just saying pretty lies… it’s time to detach yourself.. and choose yourself.

[Simslover92]

Thanks. I will.

[bobalife]

Sending hugs 🤗🤗

[Simslover92]

Aww ☺️ 🤗

[Abbycado]

No offense, but you gotta get over this guy.

[Simslover92]

I know it's just really hard when we talk everyday. I'm trying to let him go I really am and I thought we could just be friends but I'm seeing that that might not be possible.

[Abbycado]

It isn’t possible. I broke up with my ex amicably and haven’t spoken to him since. There is a reason for that.

[Simslover92]

That's true. I guess I'm going to have to rip off the bandaid as hard as that's going to be and truly let him go.

[Abbycado]

That’s what you should do. It will hurt. If I didn’t do it, I’d be in a mess right now and not with my current guy.

Ex goes to college in CA. I’m sure he still comes home like I do in summer, but I don’t see him. Never even have run into him, thankfully.

[Simslover92]

That's good. And yeah I guess I have to do the same and what will make it easy is that we live far away from one another. So it's really just cutting off phone contact.

[Abbycado]

Ty for mho!

[Simslover92]

You're welcome!

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you untangle messy hearts and messy minds, babe 💋

You’re not Carrie, you’re the writer of your own damn show. Him saying “I love you” but refusing commitment is emotional breadcrumbing, borderline lovebombing without follow-through. Classic Mr. Big red flag. He likes the access to you, not the responsibility.

You’re not a fool, you’re in love. But love without commitment becomes self-betrayal. Don’t wait around for a man who wants all the benefits and none of the bravery.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Carrie Bradshaw? You sure you want to use this male-centered woman who knowingly became Mr. Big’s mistress while he was still married, harassed his wife when she found out they were divorcing, regularly ditches her friends for this man’s company, and turns herself inside out to please him despite never successfully doing so because he sees her as a convenient hole rather than a person as your role model for the day?

[Simslover92]

Wow no. I've only seen clips of the show. Didn't know she was that bad. I guess I'm not like her at all.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Yeah, no, she’s an objectively terrible person lol

[NathanDavis]

but, it is very easy to understand...

he says that to get what he really wants, which is not you but the sex

and it is very very clear to... this is no longer about understanding, it is about accepting it, Sim... and you also know that too

[Simslover92]

I mean yeah you're right. I need to let it go.

[NathanDavis]

distancing would be ideal...

a first time, people might play with you... but every other time after that, we allow them to play us over and over

[Simslover92]

That's so true. Thanks.

[exitseven]

Sgt Hank Voight. He looks out for everyone but he follows his own code of conduct which includes sometimes coloring outside the lines.

[Simslover92]

Nice!

[Jennz6]

@Simslover92 I think most cops 👮he colors outside the lines

[Still-alive]

I think my initial assessment of this dude still applies, he wants the benefits of a relationship without the commitment. He’s also starting to sound like he knows you’ll keep coming back to him and occasionally plays you to keep you wanting him.

i dunno if i were you i’d just cut off all contact. I know its difficult because you’re attached but its for your own mental health.

[Simslover92]

That's true. I think I will. Thanks.

[Still-alive]

Be brave ok you can do this. just cut him off. i know its hard.

[BCRanger10]

He doesn't love you. He's using you.

Anyway, to answer your question, I seem to have a lot in common with Frodo and Aragorn from Lord of the Rings, as well as the Christian Bale iteration of Bruce Wayne/Batman, and Thomas More from A Man For All Seasons.

[WhitneySnow]

He doesn’t love you. If he did he would have no problem committing to you. This guy is not gonna be the guy you want him to be without some serious soul searching life changes. Maybe dumping him for good will give him the motivation to change.

[Simslover92]

Right. That's true. You're 100% right on this.

[CherryLove007]

Sorry darlin, he sounds like from what you have been through that he might be doing inner emotional work and also saw that he took you for granted.

[Simslover92]

Thanks. That's what I was thinking.

[CherryLove007]

With all due respect., cut the useless clueless man off.

[Jennz6]

@Simslover92 I don’t really look like Carrie Bradshaw and I’m more naughty than her. And I never found my Mr. Big “Although I met a lot of men that claimed to be Mr. Big” but not My Mr. Big!

[DryGermanGuy]

William Foster. :-|

[Cidknee]

That's mine.

[Cidknee]

I didn't remember the name but I remember the title of the movie.

[Xawyx-2]

Well, maybe not totally main character, but one of the main cast - I can relate to Data from Star Trek :P

[andreasderjuengere]

Myself and uncle Albert.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I relate to the NPC chilling.

While heroes & villains do their heroic & demonic things.

[captain_voidwalker]

Frodo baggins , I bore the heaviest of burdens only to wind up broken crazy and alone.

[Iron_Man]

Nobody And there’s no celebrity out there that I even wanna relate to I have my own life i am my own man I don’t live vicariously through other celebrities or athletes I make my own legacy.

[Cidknee]

But Sly! Rocky!

[Iron_Man]

@Cidknee it’s good inspiration and motivates fighters like Jerry Cooney he used to watch that movie so many times before his fight with Larry Holmes that was for the heavyweight championship of the world on June 11, 1982. He got a lot of inspiration from that movie. Sylvester Stallone He’s good at that but of course I wanna be my own man make my own legacy.

[Cidknee]

Yeah, he got his ass whipped, I remember the fight. And he could have won had he zigged the right way.

[Iron_Man]

@Cidknee He did the best that he could Gerry Conner Larry Holmes was a great fighter back then he went 13 around. Gerry. He just ran out of gas. He was very skilled Holmes hard to beat they said that any other champion that night like Mike Weaver Gerry probably could’ve beaten him. But Larry Holmes was that good

[Iron_Man]

Gerry Cooney

[Iron_Man]

@Cidknee
https://youtu.be/EH54anv1X2c?si=hEgU9HiEzH6gLR7X

[Cidknee]

I agree, GC should have won. A bit of tweaking his fight plan and he would have.

[Iron_Man]

@Cidknee yes he should’ve tried for the knockout while he still had the energy early. He wanted to try to go to the distance.

[Cidknee]

He would have probably won it then. But you never cab say. Ge might have been knocked out. 😂

[Iron_Man]

@Cidknee well he got knocked down in the second round Gerry

[Cidknee]

Didn't Holmes go down?

[Iron_Man]

Watch the boxing match I sent it to you. Gerry went down in the second round. But it wasn’t a big knockdown. He was hot that night of Caesar’s Palace in Las Vegas, Vegas, June

[Iron_Man]

June 11

[Iron_Man]

It was hot that night in Las Vegas

[Iron_Man]

@Cidknee But Gerry hit Holmes a lot in the the nuts lol

[DJB72]

Duncan MacLeod. There's a few heads I need to take...

[KostasKouvalis]

George Costanza

https://www.youtube.com/embed/0TGeVGAa-yA

[Cidknee]

Well I hope he fills you in every way.

I can say without a doubt I feel like the character performed by Michael Douglas in 'Falling Down'.

[Hunter-40m]

For me its Arthas who rose up to be the gratest but fell eventually

[Anonymous]

I had a Mr Big. Great sex but awful boyfriend

[Ironco]

Lately, Tony Soprano. And I'm already sitting in the diner...

[Caurav1997]

Sim dont you know its been year gone you haven't posted ypur pic. Dont you know world js waiting?

[Shiprex]

I'm not like anyone of them even Mr Big.

[MrChinaski]

Mr Darcy

[bowenw]

Fred Flintstone.

[loveslongnails]

Mad Max

[msc545]

Bugs Bunny

[rohitnemade]

Hy hi