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Search Results: how to tone up
Why did he start the conversation being very rude, I unmatched but it’s knocked my confidence?
I messaged a match on bumble and my go to chat up line is “Did you fall from a vending machine? Cause you are a snack”. It’s not the best line but I usually get a response to it. Some find it funny, some find it cheesy...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is my boyfriend putting me down all the time?
I’ve been with my boyfriend for about a year now and he keeps putting me down, especially about my appearance and the way I look and it’s making me feel bad about myself and lowering my self confidence. Thing is I know I...
LLIEGE2939
Xper 2 Age: 34 Is he interested in me or he’s playing me?
I have a crush on a guy whose not my direct Lead. Well apparently I was speaking to my coworker about the situation, you know letting it out. Now my crush who I thought was interested in me seems like a player. He stopped...
Anonymous
(25-29) What did he mean?
Yesterday, my guy best friend called me to wish me a happy new year. And we talked about going on a trip as well. So, 2–3 months ago, his friend teased me about my guy best friend, saying, "He is worried about you; he...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why is my sister so nasty to me? How she talks to me in her abrupt rude tone of voice?
Basically I set up movie night, make a night of it for snacks, pizza etc.. with my sister and Dad. Then while the movie is on my sisters phone goes off in this loud notification and I say for her to put her phone on...
Anonymous
(30-35) Does this mean he's interested?
So long story short I met my college crush again coincidentally at the airport and he's like freaking devilishly handsome and masculine, made me fall for him all over again I knew I was not gonna let the opportunity...
Anonymous
(36-45) Would you be shocked if you met my mother?
My boyfriend of 4 months will get to meet my parents this Saturday for the first time. Apparently, I can pass like an average white woman with dirty blonde hair and hazel/honey eyes. My dad is white like me too. On a...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I change my driving instructor?
I have had 8 hours of practise with my instructor (plus 2 hours with another teacher while main teacher was away). I have a few issues: 1) He smokes e-cigarettes during my lesson. Doesn‘t let off too much smoke but...
Anonymous
(30-35) My ex broke up with me but said some strange things whilst doing it?
I was with my ex for 11 months. It was a quick-moving, intense, loving relationship that was pretty much perfect. We talked about the future all the time, planned things months in advance, and she often referred to me as...
Anonymous
(25-29) My girlfriend broke up with me, but I know she still loves me?
My girlfriend broke up with me 10 days ago after an intense, loving, caring 10 month relationship. It followed me getting a bit drunk on her birthday and speaking in a tone that she didn’t appreciate, and made her cry...
Anonymous
(25-29) I once told him ''In your dreams'' and now he appears in my dreams, why?
I was awkward in HS and once had an argument with my then crush. Honestly, I don't remember what exactly started the argument but he used to be a jerk too. I was then 14 and he was nearly 16. This is how the argument from...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why is dark skin considered bad?
Hi I'm 23 years old I noticed since 10 I was told as a brown skinned female color of caramel I'm ugly because I'm not fairskin my mom is pale lightskinned & my dad is very dark tonight I told my mom my boyfriend have...
Anonymous
(25-29) My girlfriend has broken up with me, but says she still loves me and sees a future?
My ex broke up with me on Friday, and I am completely confused. For the most part, our relationship was loving, caring, and fun, and we’d often talk about the future and plan things way in advance. Last weekend I got...
Anonymous
(25-29) How can I stop being so jealous of women with flat/toned bellies especially tiny, petite women?
I’ve always been a big girl, tall and never been thin. I’ve always been chubby growing up. Most kids were smaller than her and I was a head taller than other students. I’ve been trying to lose weight but I always fail. I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Cold weather might be as essential as sunlight is
https://www.youtube.com/embed/3HoWUuinkQs I'm a little more friendly than I was just a few weeks ago. Not only that but people I meet are more friendly. For the past 3 days EVERYONE I MEET has been laughing uncontrollably...
Anonymous
(18-24) Guys, He said, “men will go great lengths for good sex. How do I know when a man truly loves me vs playing me until he gets what he wants?
My concern is always manipulative behavior and/or to be objectified. He will do such wonderful things like play with my hair and buy me chocolate when I’m on my period; or sometimes asks me to do something other than sex...
Turia
Xper 1 Age: 32 Girls, Can you make this make sense for me?
There was a girl who me and her recently broke up she stated a lot of it was differences attributed to me being autistic. Now I would contact her to keep her updated about our dog that we got together and she felt...
Anonymous
(30-35) Need closure on the end of a friendship - thanks for your input on a VERY long post (not really a my take, sorry!)
Apologies ahead of time, for the extremely long wall of text. This is a complicated matter, that has spanned a few years - so it is impossible to write a shortened version of it. Definitely not a read, for those that...
Anonymous
(30-35) How does it feel to know that your wife could beat you up?
I've often gone to the gym with my beloved, and watched the reactions that she gets when she lifts. she's also toned and muscular -- and I've seen the awe (and anxiety) that she inspires in others when she starts lifting...
Anonymous
(36-45) The History of Adults Blaming the Younger Generation for how screwed up their present day is.
Did YOU know that for every generation throughout our history there's elderly people blaming the younger ones for the reason their society is fucked up? https://www.youtube.com/embed/dC3kBsRpkZQ Do you see how this might...
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