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I hear this... A LOT. I actually asked in a group on FB on how to find love, how the people have found their s/o and pretty much everyone answered the same.

Here are the answers:

"Don't look for it, because love will find you if the right chance comes."
"Stop looking it will happen"
"Quit looking... it will find you when you quit looking."
"Don't look for it, let it come to you!!"
"dont look on the web,, get out and find them in person"
"Don't look. It will find you when it is the right time."
"Stop looking. What is meant to be will come to you."
"There is someone for everybody, don't be desperate to find that one and you will stumble across the one you need when you least expect it."
"The harder you look the more difficult it will be to find."
"Select DON'T settle."
"Stop looking, you will find each other when you least expect it."

I do like the don't settle, my guy friend is telling me all the time to lower my standards... he doesn't understand.

Do you agree?