Search Results: how to make her comfortable around me

A good first date leads to a good second date: some advice and suggestions

This MyTake was inspired by a question recently posted by @AnnaTumbles: What first date tips do you wish everyone knew? First, why is a 67 year-old dude giving advice about dating? Because I have been dating, or in...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

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To stay or to go? Advice please?

Pros: great chemistry, I feel like myself around him, we enjoy each other, compatible, great sex. He has said that he’s comfortable with me, I am beautiful, he really likes me, thanks me for being patient and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do I feel so comfortable around a man I just met at work?

I noticed something in his demeanorand way he spoke to someone else. I feel like he's an honest person in a way and once he talked to me i was very talkative which everyone else in planet earth will call me quiet shy etc....

85i5yb7j

Xper 1 Age: 95

Fashion & Beauty

Girls, does anyone else make a distinction between "bathing" and "swimming" suits?

I do and here's the difference: When I get a bathing suit , I care about how good it looks on me and how comfortable it is. When I get a swimming suit, I also factor in how well it stays on when I crash test it "shake...

AngelOfLight258

Xper 6 Age: 37

Why is my boyfriend always so tense or on edge?

We've been dating for a few months and he always seems to be walking on eggshells whenever we hang out. It's like he's scared to do/say anything, he usually gives one-worded answers and doesn't ask questions about...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is he and his friends acting like this? Does he like me or not? What did I do wrong?

We met the first week of my sophomore year of highschool. Having a lot in common and being in the same group table made things go pretty well. I started to like him, but didn't tell anyone. A girl in the same group table...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is it wrong to post this kind of TikTok?

A little back story. My boyfriend of 3 years keeps watching girls on TikTok when he’s not around me. I told him that I can get over it as long as he isn’t going out of his way to watch them. We’ll he was doing fine...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Does she think I'm not worth making the effort for? Is she trying to repel me?

I like this girl but we are just friends as she is not interested in me romantically or sexually. We still hang out on occasion and sometimes we do fun activities and other times we go out for drinks at a bar etc. We...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Education & Career

I want to get a job, but I can’t, what should I do?

I live with my mom, sister, brother, and Papa. My mom works at home , my sister is in high school, my brother is too young to work, and my Papa is a Pastor and works in the community. With that being said, we have three...

chickieenuggiess

Xper 3 Age: 23

He says he can’t do affection?

I’m seeing a guy, we have been good close friends for 5 years, from the start we had always had a bond, a closeness and a connection, I’ve never felt it with anyone else, and our sexual chemistry is through the roof. He’s...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do you think about my relationship with this professor?

I am working on the article (I am continuing the research that is related to the topic of my master thesis that I finished last year) and the professor who was my mentor when I was a student and I worked with him a lot in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, I'm a brown (Indian) woman dating a white man and because of cultural differences my extended family are saying he's taking advantage of me?

He's tall and strong compared to a lot of brown guys, also very relaxed. We've been dating for three months. My family is very conservative, and he came to a gathering to see me. I introduced him around. He got along well...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

It is wrong that I don't feel comfortable with my sister being around my children?

This isn't about the good sister, the one who's married and in the family business too, this about the "black sheep" one. My wife told me than in those days I'm away, my sister keeps visiting her and my daughter. I'm not...

Sun_Kim-Ai

Guru Age: 28

What are signs a guy wants to kiss you?

What are signs a guy wants to kiss you? We met via hinge in June. So I have been on 7 dates with this guy, but I wouldn't count the first two dates as it was a mix of us meeting one another and seeing if we click, so let...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Is she shy or is it something else?

I met this great girl in school, and we were hitting it off well. She was really smart, funny, and super mature / no bs. We really got each other’s sense of humor, there was a good amount of innocent flirting / teasing...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

How can an unmotivated person who’s anxious about working out force themselves to go to the gym? How can I restore my energy/boost testosterone level?

That’s the problem I’m dealing with right now. Basically when covid struck it closed everything down for several months where I live and so I had to adjust to not going to the gym. And ever since I haven’t changed my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does height matters?

Im Asian but even so im barely 5'3ft , im thinking of actually going to a relationship , at least I'll try to do so , never had one , so i wonder will my height be a big hindrance. My girl-friends always sees me as a cute...

Kusooogaki

Xper 2 Age: 27