He says he can’t do affection?

[Anonymous]

I’m seeing a guy, we have been good close friends for 5 years, from the start we had always had a bond, a closeness and a connection, I’ve never felt it with anyone else, and our sexual chemistry is through the roof. He’s very loving and kind, will hug me, hold my hand, kiss etc, he shows he cares in a lot of ways without involving sex, even before we was even having sex, and I know he will help me with anything I ask as I feel he genuinely cares for me…. But he says he just can’t do affection, we have only just started sleeping together, but he gets up after and doesn’t run off or anything, but pots around keeping busy, he says he can’t lay and cuddle, it makes him u comfortable and makes him feel nervous. He says it’s not just me, he’s alwYs been like it, and he wants to with me but he just can’t? can any male shed some light on the issue or what I can do to help if anything?

[Anonymous]

Cuddling like that is very intimate compared to holding your hand or kissing you. He doesn’t want that closeness Bc 9/10 he doesn’t want to be in a position to advance your relationship and commit. You say you’ve been friends for 5 years, but friends to carry on the way you describe. If you’ve advanced to letting him have sex with you then I have a strong hunch you are interested, and I’m sure he feels that too to an extent. But something about his past has shaped who he’s become, and as a result, he will keep giving you just enough so you’ll be happy but won’t commit. That’s why he won’t even imply he wants that.

[savagewolf22]

You like cuddle?

[spartan55]

No idea, that's very weird. He has some unresolved issue somewhere.

[Anonymous]

He is gay...

[Asker]

That made me laugh 😂 I hope not

[Opinion Owner]

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