I married my childhood crush from when I was 5-12 he grew up across the street. We lost contact for 15 years and when we reconnected it was like picking up where we left off. We were all about one another. I fell deeply in love and so he says as well. After 2 years of marriage he disappear for a week and I found out he was with his ex. He says they didn't sleep together im still unsure. Over the last 3 years since that incident I've caught him numerous times on tinder, pof, etc. We have always had amazing sex and often but then suddenly he fell off last summer it really got to me... Id try talking to him and it end up in a argument.. My "bestfriend" said I didn't deserve it. And said she would talk to him. Finally he told me around October 2021 he was just. Getting older and his drive was declining nothing to do with me. Fast fwd to December 1st the "bestfriend" needed help I offer for my husband to help... Well 6 days go by and he still acting weird. I question it an he comes home packs his belongings and leaves me for her... He had her bring him almost every day to check on me.. Make sure I had what I needed etc. Then after 5 days he come back I love him and of course I took him back but I'm still hurt. Now insecure. They slept together multiple times during that 5 days. He even brought back a surprise I had. To be treated for he acts like it isn't a big deal... When back together our sex life picked back up by Feb it was decreasing again... Now August. I'm lucky if we have sex 1 time a month... He 37 I'm 35. I do everything for this man. And I mean everything. I just don't know if that's why he is here or if he really loves me... And if he does why does he do these things..
Guys, Does he really love me? Is he here because he genuinely cares or because he is "comfortable"?
