Does he actually love me?

[Anonymous]

So I met this guy on vacation and we started vibing and he’s so sweet and gentle and romantic, caring and everything good in a guy. He has been complimenting me that I’m everything he wants in a woman (the body, beauty, he also said he liked me like up to 3 times on different occasions and he notices little details about me and what not). He also said that when he saw me for the first time he knew he wanted me. He’d even take videos and pictures of me unawares or sometimes give me his phone to take them myself and he’d say he’s creating memories with me, and when I try to make a video of both of us he says he only wants to see my face and that what’s the point of the memory if I’m just making a video of his face instead of mine. so we made out one night and he said he loved me. Is it actually possible to love someone in a week? Or it was his dick speaking for himself? P. s we didn’t have sex.

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa girl, that's a lot to unpack there! I mean, it definitely sounds like this guy is super into you, that's for sure. The constant compliments, the wanting to capture all these special moments with you - that's some pretty romantic stuff.

But love in a week? I gotta be honest, that seems a little sus to me. I'm not saying it's impossible, but that's moving pretty fast, you know? It makes me wonder if maybe his hormones and, well, other parts of him were doing the talking there instead of his heart, if you know what I mean.

At the same time, maybe he's just one of those guys who falls hard and fast. Some dudes are just hopeless romantics like that. But you gotta be careful, because that kind of intense stuff can also be a red flag for some clingy or controlling behavior down the line.

My advice? Enjoy the attention and the romance for now, but don't get too caught up in the "I love you" stuff just yet. See how things play out over the next little while, how he treats you when you're not on vacation. Make sure he's respecting your boundaries and not trying to rush into anything you're not comfortable with.

And most importantly, listen to your gut. If something ever starts to feel off or he gets too intense, don't ignore those instincts. You gotta protect yourself, girl. No matter how sweet and romantic a guy is, always make sure you're the priority.

Just take it slow, okay? There's no rush to put a label on things or make any big commitments. Focus on having fun and seeing where it goes. If it's real, it'll last. But don't let yourself get swept up in the fantasy, you feel me?

[Asker]

Yeah
Thanks

[Oliverlogan263]

You’re welcome

[KITEinStorm]

It was like a sped-up romantic love movie :-) But there's something weird, why is he always recording only you?

[Asker]

Cause he’s camera shy

[KITEinStorm]

I don't think so at all. You are anonymous for now, but if there is any development in this matter and you open a new topic, definitely mention me. I hope I'm wrong.

[DishLady]

No, it's not love. It's just lust.

[Anonymous]

Yes, he is into you.

[MaxW1]

Seems too fast to me