Does he really love me?

[Anonymous]

I’m in a relationship with this man. We love each other very much. Then suddenly he told me he wants to have a family with me with a lot of children in the future, he always said that when we talk. And he also that he love me and respected me because soon I’ll be his children’s mom. But he didn’t mention about marriage. What does he really mean?

[kylee2437]

Maybe you should ask and also include your wants. You need to be assertive when it comes to expectations. You should met him with “I want to get married and be a family as well”

[Asker]

Thank you for this advice 🙏🏻 soon if I have courage, I will ask him.

[kylee2437]

You should really do it now! I’m sure he does want marriage, but definitely let him know what you would like so there’s no confusion in the future!

[Asker]

He even told me that I am the woman that his looking for. Because in his Country it is very hard to find a woman who is like me. And he is very happy that he found me and he told me too that he is complete because of me. But still I’m afraid getting pregnant without marriage because we are very far apart, we are different ethnic and im afraid I’ll end up being a single mom.

[kylee2437]

@asker you need to express that you would like marriage before kids. Don’t be afraid to speak up. Your future is determined on what you allow and how you communicate

[MCheetah]

OH MY GOD! How many times do we see these questions here on GAG? They're as common as the (serious) penis-size questions. As if we're supposed to know what complete strangers feel about you, ha ha ha! 🤣

[ChrisMike1919]

You should remind that if he want kids, he should marry with you first.

[Asker]

Thanks 🙏🏻

[Asker]

Gonna pray for courage to tell him this

[ChrisMike1919]

You don't need to pray for something it's inside you already. You just have to tell him straight.

[WhitneySnow]

If he wants a lot of kids that probably means he wants to get married too

[Asker]

Thanks for this advice 🙏🏻

[WhitneySnow]

Sure 😊

[bubblegunnn]

If he scared u about pregnancies, now ur turn to scared him about marriage

[dophix]

I know this scary but don't be scared to talk about marriage.

[Asker]

Yes it’s scary, I’m praying for courage

[dophix]

I hope u have the strength to open about marriage with him