Search Results: initiating sex

Getting very confused and mixed signals with friends with benefits situation. Does he like me, unsure on what is going on?

About 2 months ago, I matched with a guy on Tinder. I was honestly just looking for a friends with benefits and nothing else. We chatted for a bit and all of our communication has been via Snapchat. As I got to know him,...

xolustforlife

Xper 1 Age: 37

Is it normal for texting and intimacy to slow down in a relationship?

So long story short I have been seeing this girl now for the past 9 months and everything has been going great. We live a short distance apart and see each other maybe 3 or 4 times a week. In the beginning everything was...

Marc56

Xper 1 Age: 33

Girl's Behavior

Do you agree with this 8/10+ female that for most men they must rely on their finances to be considered desirable to women?

The clip is taken from her tiktok. Torshaa, is a dating/relationship expert and social media influencer (similar to Kevin samuel). She states that in a country of equal opportunity between both sexes that men have to make...

Lookingforthetruth

Explorer Age: 36

I ended our “friendship” after he said he can’t do a relationship- did I make the right choice?

I’ve been seeing this guy since January. it was great at first and even tho I’ve been seeing people in between I still feel strong feelings for him. At first he told me he’s looking for the same thing as me, something...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do I keep a barely alive friendship?

2 months ago, my guy best friend and I decided to hook up. Not sex but everything else. We went from talking everyday, being on the phone all night to only me initiating. It wasn’t flirty when we’d stay up, he’d spill his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Husband no longer tries to get intimate and is always short with me?

My 5th anniversary is in a few weeks. We have a 4 yr old and 2 yr old. Neither are good sleepers. My 4 yr old is very scared to be alone at night so she sleeps with me in my bed. My husband sleeps on the couch. Around 1...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Is this girl really interested or is she wasting my time?

Basically been seeing this girl for a little over a month and I'm getting a little frustrated with the lack of intimacy. For context, when we first met a club lets just say things happened. It wasn't sex but it was...

Crunchy_Mart

Xper 4 Age: 35

GUYS, what does this mean?

My boyfriend and I've known each other since 5th grade. We are now in our twenties and reconnected. We've been dating for a year now an was later told that he lost his virginity to me. Well, we've had sex and he's mostly...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is it in the age of equality, men are still paying for 68% of the dates?

New study on dates shows that men paid for the majority of male-initiated dates (68%), but women or both paid only 33% of the female-initiated dates. Everyone on the internet keeps telling me, the one who asks should pay...

Lookingforthetruth

Explorer Age: 36

Flirting

Does this mean she’s interested or completely not?

I like this girl and there’s a lot of chemistry. Were same sex and we’ve been getting a lot closer I think. She usually initiates conversation or anything else. We saw each other again at work and I walked in and she...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Am I overthinking the reasoning behind my boyfriends low sex drive?

When my now boyfriend and I first met he was fairly known to be very promiscuous. After about a year of friendship, we started dating. His past never bothered me and before we started dating he would often brag about his...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Do women really believe that male sex drive is all about self gratification and objectifying women? Do you really believe most men see women that way?

There are times I had my eyes wonder and I have lecherous thoughts. I actually have twice in my life had a random sexual encounters with two attractive women who didn’t even ask my name. They initiated and didn’t care...

Anonymous

(36-45)

There are times I had my eyes wonder and I have lecherous thoughts. I actually have twice in my life had a random sexual encounters with two attractive women who didn’t even ask my

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Guys, Should I give up on him?

I met this man some time ago, and felt like there was a “spark” when we were introduced, but we remained casual acquaintances for about a year. He then started pursuing me for sex out of the blue, and when I made it clear...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Crisis in my long-distance relationship: My LDR boyfriend tells me that he struggles to feel desire for me and is unsure, what can we do?

Hello, We've been together for 2.5 years. I'm planning to move to his country in a year. Many difficult things happened during this period: pandemics, war situations as well, inflation that restricted us to see each...

Anonymous

(25-29)

A guy i've been hooking up with stopped initiating sex and is trying to get to know me better is he falling for me?

I've been having sex with a guy for over 2months on and off. We only see eachother once or twice a week and we've always had amazing sexual chemistry but lately he's been drifting away from sex and when we get together he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Starting to resent my wife?

My wife has a big insecurity surrounding sex in which she feels I use her. The thing is, I’ve worked effortlessly for years to help ease that anxiety and show her I love her for her. This has caused me to grow weary and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys choose dependent, immature girls over me?

I had this great connection with this guy I reconnected with from high school. He and I have a lot in common and spent a few months spending time together. We had a few occasions where we got physical (but didn't have...

erika_o14

Xper 5 Age: 28

Is my long distance boyfriend pushing me away?

So lately my boyfriend is hardly talking to me. We’ve been talking for 5 months now. That now he is telling me: “I’m very busy with work.” “you should become independent and focus on yourself more” “I’m...

FictionalCharacter

Guru Age: 36