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Search Results: red flags
Has frequently being sa lead me to abusers?
T. W~ pregnancy, sex, sex assault, abuse. I left my abuser in June. I went on a sex spree. I put myself in a dangerous situation and was getting attacked. Anyway, I met this guy. He was lovely. But I should have...
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(36-45) Is this loveboming?
My friend recently started dating this guy and we are all very happy for her however there are some concerns I have. Some background: she is anxious attachment, falls pretty easily. They met on a dating app and jsut...
poodleswim
Xper 1 Age: 23 Trouble renting. What's up with the owner?
My girlfriend and I have found a great house that we're interested in renting. It's above our budget, but it's really well located near 3 hospitals (my job), and it's in the countryside (which we both wanted). However,...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do you consider this red flag?
I was chatting with someone recently. We were talking for our hobbies and things we like. When I asked about what his dreams were, he responded : I don't have any dream Ill go with the flow and enjoy my life, I'm not...
Anonymous
(30-35) Was I wrong for confronting him?
So my boyfriend is on vacation and I saw him adding more than 25girls in 3days. I started feeling bad about that situation and decided to talk to him after he asked me to because I was being dry. So I told him that I saw...
Anonymous
(25-29) I just attracted a girl out of my league and I’m a virgin, should I even bother?
I work in sales, so I’m a good bullshitter, probably how I got her interest. But it seems that I’ve gathered a woman’s interest. Thing is, not even that long ago she was making fun of male virgins and saying it’s a major...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why would a guy just straight up share his "red flags"?
I'm crushing on someone and I think is reciprocated. Like 90% sure. However, he will casually just mention his red flags (or what he considers to be red flags). Stuff like having an addictive personality and being...
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(25-29) 
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Has anyone else felt like they are messed up to date?
I have PTSD social anxiety disorder BPD and clinical depression. I take medication. I've seen a therapist since I was 13 I'm 41 now. I see myself as a huge neon red flag to women and I don't know how to think differently.
Anonymous
(36-45) Is a bad taste in the opposite sex a red flag for you?
I understand people can pretend to be someone they’re not and by the time you see the real the you miss the old person… Someone who can pretend to be anything you want. That’s not what I’m taking about. I mean men and...
Do you think being divorced after having kids is a red flag?
once you have kids and a family. Marriage becomes more than just about passion or excitement or just about having fun. You now have a duty to care and be there for your family especially your children. You shouldn't be...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is my boyfriend keeping asking me if my sisters would come onto him?
This is weird. He keeps saying this. I say my sisters aren't like that. Is this a red flag?
Anonymous
(25-29) Is he maybe interested or keeping his option open?
A guy named Jax matched with me on Bumble. His opening line was asking about my green and red flags. I answered, and then he asked what I was looking for. I said a boyfriend, and he said the same. I tried texting him...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why do people think us autistic people are naive, dense or very unaware of real life? Why is my family so protective?
I always get reminded of there’s still manipulation everywhere no matter how nice the environment is or if it’s Christian, some people won’t always be good or nice. Good things I do, me aunt and uncle has to remind me...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do people think I’m not always aware of the reality just because I’m autistic?
I am currently started attending a Christian college which I do think it’s alright for so. I like the fact that it’s Christian and I don’t know about the people because I don’t know if they’re really nice or not. I am...
Anonymous
(25-29) Red flag or nah?
So I met this guy on a dating app, immediately hit it off. He asked me out after 2 days and went on a date 3 days later. picked me up from my aunts house and introduced himself there, bought me flowers and a small plushie...
Zelinei
Xper 4 Age: 29 