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Why would a guy stare, want my attention and tell his friends about me if he was not that into me?

We both go to college and are in the same major. He used to like me way back but his interest subsided since we didn't have any contact. Years later he hears rumors that I’m into him and starts turning around and staring...
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Why do some people blatantly stare at a girl (like they want to catch their attention) and later deny it and pretend they were never into her?

Guy had a tiny interest in me (kept glancing at me from across the room etc and his friends noticed.) and stared because he wanted a signs from me to approach, I was too shy so I ignored. 4 years later he finds out I did...
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Guys, would you date someone whose life isn’t all the way “together” , but carries many of the other traits that make a good partner ?

Would you want to be with someone who didn’t have all that they should typically have (car, apartment, etc) approaching their mid 20’s? If someone is working, saving money, almost done with college and most of all a good...
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Would you want to be with someone who didn’t have all that they should typically have (car, apartment, etc) approaching their mid 20’s? If someone is working, saving money, almost done Show More
Yes, as long as she’s being productive and saving money I’d date her
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Guys, Do guys say this as a way to approach a girl: "You look familiar"?

I've been told this 3 times by different guys. I'm no extrovert so i'm not that social. However, younger guys i've never met have asked me this. At a car wash, one of them asked me if i was married first and then said...
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Why did he approach me then share he’s emotionally unavailable days later?

I was approached by a guy at church and I thought he was genuinely interested because he first took the initiative to walk me to my car when I usually leave early, asked me when were my days off/asked me out, and we had...
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He shared that he’s Emotionally Unavailable?

I was approached by a guy at church and I thought he was genuinely interested because he first took the initiative to walk me to my car when I usually leave early, asked me when were my days off/asked me out, and we had...
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Guys, If he actively tries to be close to me when he doesn’t have to, can I be mostly sure he’s into me?

A very handsome guy I work with is very shy (as I was informed by his friend and my coworker who grew up with him) and when he first met me he was incredibly awkward and nervous around me. He would be smiling and then he...
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How do I talk about this problem with my partner?

My partner and I have been together for a few years. We have always had a solid relationship. We hardly fight, and generally have good communication around needs and whatnot. But lately, I have had a friendship develop...
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He’s too hot for me?

It’s not an insecurity, it’s a fact that I am not in this guys league, he is way too hot for me. So how do I approach him and tell him I can’t talk to him anymore because I feel I am not hot enough to be talking to him?...
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How do you subtly ask a guy if he has a girlfriend?

There's an absolutely cute guy at my church that's caught my eye, and I actually had the nerve to ask for his name today! So while I'm just getting to know him, I want to know if he has a girlfriend so I don't...
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Boyfriend followed the same girl my ex boyfriend cheated on me with. What should I do?

Can I please have some advice? I was with my ex for 2 years. We ended it because he cheated on me with my "friend." This "friend" of mine, who was in a long-term relationship herself at the time, would always ask about my...
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Is it time for me to move on?

I’m still very much in love after several years with two men that I’ve had situationships with. *Ian*; who doesn’t respect me and *Brian;* who has no desire to work. However, neither of these situationships have gone...
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Anyone else think dating is a waste of time if you aren’t attractive?

For the past couple years, I tried to convince myself that I was physically attractive despite my lack of height (5’6” ish). I would dress up nice, stand with decent posture, act confident and what not. None of it worked....
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Am I delusional or does my gym crush likes me?

I’ve been crushing on this guy ever since I started to take notice 2/3 months ago. We catch each other staring at one another and at times, out eyes meet for the quickest second. He’s able to hold eye contact but I’m...
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Do you guys think he’s leading me on?

I showed interest in a guy who showed interest in me through conversation, flirting, body language etc he asked me out on a proper date but because of my schedule I unfortunately forced him to have to reschedule the date....
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Why do guys approach me only because they like my friends?

It has always been this way. My friends are absolutely stunning. I look average but I have a bright personality. I am a bit tall and like the topper of the class. So it might be as they might not really find me much...
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Is going to gym and changing your appearance basically the only important thing for finding a girlfriend?

I have never had a girlfriend in my whole life and I really want to experience being in a relationship. The issue with the culture in which I was raised is that appearance was not considered very important for...
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Weight issues and eating healthy?

Im a naturally skinny guy and i enjoy junkfood. I since cut down (i have it on weekends as a treat compared to everyday). I started working out and gaining weight/muscle. My girlfriend (been together 10 years) is on the...
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How do I stop falling for toxic girls? Do I have an unhealthy type?

I've only had limited experiences of this, but I don't want to have any ever again. I meet a girl, she seems charming, sensible, open, cute and a bit out of the way. She has small quirks that make her stand out from...
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Why are women way too picky?

Im an average looking guy and 5’7 and 19 and still a virgin. I cold approached 15 different girls and all of them rejected me. Im gonna keep approaching girls, but switch up how i approach them. Im not afraid of...
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