I was approached by a guy at church and I thought he was genuinely interested because he first took the initiative to walk me to my car when I usually leave early, asked me when were my days off/asked me out, and we had conversation. He asked me for my number on the day he approached and gave him my Instagram but I held off on giving it until a few Sunday’s later. Through DM he briefly shared being single.
I eventually gave him my number and I found it odd that he never bothered calling. This Sunday I saw him, greeted him, and he followed me outside as I left early once again. He explains the reason for not calling and wanting to stop walking to discuss what he wanted to say.
He shares that he do apologize for not calling when he said he would and the reason why he didn’t is because he didn’t wanted to take a step knowing he’s not emotionally available due to his past of the different women he’s dating and the people he hurt in return himself. I told him why did he ask me out and he states doing therapy and being told that his therapist said not to take a further step. I shared how I value my time and him being a man of his word etc.
It’s pouring rain and we started walking again and we’re talking. I share my thoughts, he mentions wanting to still talk and he says “what were the plans that I have for him”. We laughed and I shared that information I won’t be saying. He walks me to my car as we’re still talking and he says how he’s working on himself and his own walk with Christ. We get to my car and I see he’s staring at me and saying that he hopes I don’t view him in another way but I wasn’t mad and I said I forgave him for being honest.
Out of nowhere he says something along the lines of “If it’s meant to be” which I was confused and I paused and said.. “If it’s God’s will”.
HELPP?
I eventually gave him my number and I found it odd that he never bothered calling. This Sunday I saw him, greeted him, and he followed me outside as I left early once again. He explains the reason for not calling and wanting to stop walking to discuss what he wanted to say.
He shares that he do apologize for not calling when he said he would and the reason why he didn’t is because he didn’t wanted to take a step knowing he’s not emotionally available due to his past of the different women he’s dating and the people he hurt in return himself. I told him why did he ask me out and he states doing therapy and being told that his therapist said not to take a further step. I shared how I value my time and him being a man of his word etc.
It’s pouring rain and we started walking again and we’re talking. I share my thoughts, he mentions wanting to still talk and he says “what were the plans that I have for him”. We laughed and I shared that information I won’t be saying. He walks me to my car as we’re still talking and he says how he’s working on himself and his own walk with Christ. We get to my car and I see he’s staring at me and saying that he hopes I don’t view him in another way but I wasn’t mad and I said I forgave him for being honest.
Out of nowhere he says something along the lines of “If it’s meant to be” which I was confused and I paused and said.. “If it’s God’s will”.
HELPP?
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