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We met at a friend's birthday party. Hit it off, exchanged numbers.

We've not done anything sexual yet since meeting for 2 coffees but his texts are quite sexual & to be blunt I've a feeling he's using me to get off. He is often communicating during the week but come the weekend is more or less dead silent. He wants to meet during the week when he has some time off & my work is closed for renovations for a month - we're being paid.

Quite bluntly as he doesn't seem to pay much attention to what I said - like he praised something I showed him via a link. And a colleague - our mutual friend - was tearing the same link apart. That's not the first time I highly doubt he even looks into what I share.

To be honest I haven't fallen for much of what he says about love, etc. particularly when half of his actions contradict what he says.

28F & I haven’t ever been in a LTR, I saw someone for a few months when I was 23 & that felt like settling. The bar is set even higher now & I’d rather be single than in a mediocre relationship. Ever since I was a teen I always felt like a lot of the girls were boy crazy & were so hyped about sex I thought they were overreacting. I thought I was a late bloomer & figured that feeling would happen to me eventually but it still hasn’t. I never really felt the pressure to date until I was close to graduating HS/ starting college & even then I had this feeling that felt kind of ick. I still do & the fact that I don’t care about sex at all to this day makes me think about asexuality. But I battle between not being sure if I actually want companionship, hence I use the dating apps very casually. Overthinking it & deep down does it just sound like I haven’t found the right person?

There was a male poster that was enabling the behavior of using older women (ages 30+) for sex and dump her later on because they wasted their years. He was asking if it was fun using older women for sex and dumping/ghosting them afterwards. Another guy went even deeper; he claimed to have no problem having sex and going after an older, wealthy woman for her money.

Or others that think just because a woman had a high sexual past but was later on looking for love, that she deserved to continue being used for sex and ghosted afterwards. That's just as awful as the gold-diggers leaving the guy penniless.

Aren't those the traits of narcissists and/or sociopaths. That's already a total disregard for a human being, a person with feeling and their own desires regardless of their past, age, etc. Lack of regard for a human and no remorse is a sociopath.

sorry, I couldn’t use punctuation. My key wasn’t working.

So, anyway, a while back a friend had dared me to ask as many guys out at once, as I could just to see if I could do it as in if I could handle going on dates, not as if they would say yes. I declined because the idea creep me out but I’m thinking about it in retrospect and I think it was kind of funny and

I’m wondering if people if they knew about the situation, like they knew the person was being dared and that it wasn’t serious and they just wanted to go on one date, and have fun, not have fun as in sex, just as in hang out, would they say yes.. I might 🤷🏻‍♀️