If someone asked you out just for fun and they told you it’s just for fun that it was a dare from a friend. Would you say yes?

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sorry, I couldn’t use punctuation. My key wasn’t working.

So, anyway, a while back a friend had dared me to ask as many guys out at once, as I could just to see if I could do it as in if I could handle going on dates, not as if they would say yes. I declined because the idea creep me out but I’m thinking about it in retrospect and I think it was kind of funny and

I’m wondering if people if they knew about the situation, like they knew the person was being dared and that it wasn’t serious and they just wanted to go on one date, and have fun, not have fun as in sex, just as in hang out, would they say yes.. I might 🤷🏻‍♀️

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

If I thought they were decent to spend time with yes, especially when young and had no experience and needed to learn. I did kinda do that at times.. you get practice getting rejected and learning to field interest, keeping your energy up.

I once "went out" (spent a chunk of a day) with a gal in California I'd only talked to, when I was around your age. She was tech support for Apple and enjoyed talked to her. Never saw her.

If you know CA, you know how "weird" people can be. She was like... a "moon" child or something... It was weird.. or maybe I was weird to her. She was a decent person, but I was glad to leave. I don't recall ever talking to her again.

I survived. You usually survive and grow.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

If someone asked if I wanted to go do something fun, I'd go if it sounded fun. I like having fun. It's not like I wouldn't go unless there a possibility of romance or sex. Jeeeez, not everything revolves around sex or romantic relationships.

If I found out that I had been asked out as a dare with no other explanation, I might be offended. Like the hot girl's mean friends dared her to ask the loser dude out as a prank?

But of the reason for the dare was explained, I would be more than happy to go out and just do something fun.

Yannishka · Accepted Answer

I don't think I would say yes. It could definitely be fun, but asking me out for fun is not that tempting for me to say yes. I date for long term, for fun doesn't sound like it will last.

Or I could say yes and play pretend, kill some time.

RoseySarah · Accepted Answer

Never tell them about the dare they will hate it and you!

It is normal nature and if you tell a guy he will want sex in exchange for you using him for the dare!

Bad idea and if not told by the friend I'd hate it too!

coachTanthony · Answer

Sure they pay for the date we have fun why not.

AviatorTom · Answer

No, but I'd help them out by signing a certificate that they asked me out... to satisfy the dare.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

A DARE is a DARE & if someone asked me out on a DARE I would take her up on that challenge because a DARE can lead to a DOUBLE DARE & that DOUBLE DARE can lead to something wonderful.

humanearth · Answer

Depends basically on whether or not I’m attracted to them

Basically, I would be thinking my friends were messing with me. So I would be also thinking if it was real.

Back in the day, my friends gave a stranger 20 bucks to approach me.

loveslongnails · Answer

I might go, if I thought she'd be fun to spend time with and she wasn't grossly unattractive! If that part was ok, I'd probably play along and say " Hmmm, what does going out mean? Where do you want to take me? What do you have in mind"... just to see what she says. LOL

MysticDevice · Answer

If I knew it was a dare or just for fun I'd say no. I don't want to be played with like that. If I didn't know... hmm. I might say yes If I thought she was nice

Finchie40 · Answer

If I was attracted to her then why not have fun and take a shit at getting her to really like me

Anonymous · Answer

I would tell him if you would have asked me seriously I would have said yes but since its a joke no:)

Juxtapose · Answer

No, I'm tired of people being non-committal and flaky. I want someone who knows what they want and is articulate about it.

KatherineJ · Answer

If someone asked me out on a dare, or “just for fun”, I would have felt insulted. So no.

provokeesmokee · Answer

No.  I want to see them lose to their friend. I'm not so nice as to spare them their ego-driven loss.

EmmaMary · Answer

No thank you... I'd sooner not waste my time playing silly games.

richardcory · Answer

If it was someone I might go out with anyway, sure. At least help them concoct an interesting story to tell the person who dared them. I'd consider it a big plus that they told me

Ck1790 · Answer

Even if it was a bet u can’t get a date with them dare (like if they’re out of your league) it could still be ok. The problem is when it’s like on the movies and it’s a mean dare like a bet at someone’s expense

Philyouup · Answer

I don’t see anything wrong, exploring the world and its people should be high on the agenda. How do you know who your going to like if you don’t spread your wings and explore? I don’t see it as creepy,
i see it as an adventure.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I wouldn't. I don't want my first date to be a dare.

Screenwriter · Answer

If it was a decent person and it appeared it could be a potential friend or something else, why not?

Anemone978 · Answer

I would if I was attracted to them, cuz it is fun to get to know new people and have fun

exitseven · Answer

I suppose it is not as bad as if you told me you were asking me out because you lost a bet. It still sort of sucks. O voted other.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, I would go out with a girl who asks me out, to see how things go between us.

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