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So one of the girls I am dating was being a bit confusing. She said she was a sports fan but was too tired to watch a playoff football game. She wanted to do 2021 goal setting with me but forgot her diary and instead brought food to my place and cooked for me. All of it was no big deal. So I simply pointed out that she was confusing me by inviting me over and then a second later changing her mind. I knew she was tired because she had been posting online a bunch of work questions until 2am.

So I simply tell her its no big deal. I "just want you to be consistent" I told her. Because she was confusing.

So... she basically snaps and tells me to "stop being an asshole... I dont appreciate it. Stop being so critical of me."

Now... at this point I am starting to understand her ups and downs. So I just tell her that I am not going to fight with her and that I appreciated her coming to my place to cook for me. She just kept being bitchy and calling me an asshole for pointing out her contradictions.

I just told her, "I am not being an asshole. You seem very tired and need rest. I really like you. I appreciate you seeing me this weekend."

15 minutes later she texts me, "Stop being nice when I'm being mean. Goodnight."

I guess she did go to sleep because she didn't reply for a couple hours later. She was in a better mood. Back to her perky self. But I keep wondering if this was some type of shit test. Do women act bitchy on purpose to try to push my buttons and see how I would react.

Most women seem to think they aren't picky/entitled, but almost every woman I've spoken to (besides a few realistic ones on here, like @JosyJosy, @DizzyDesii, etc;) SAY things that contradict that. They'll ask for Tony-freaking-Stark and then think they're not asking for perfection. And honestly, it gets annoying AF, especially when they complain about "being single," but reject 99.9% of the quality male population. They'll also do all of this while literally bringing nothing to the table other than having a vagina (not "giving up the vagina," just HAVING one). And then when some men like myself call out these entitlements, like the infamous "you can change weight, but you can't change height" counter-argument, they'll huff and puff, but never address said argument or see their demands as "unrealistic" and unfair.

By unrealistic standards; I mean:
- 6'0" to 6'4", minimum height.
- Ego brimming out the ass; enough confidence to wrestle a bear and 100% believe you'll win.
- Earns way more money than her, no matter who she is or what she does for a living.
- Immaculate gym body that requires at least 15 hours a week of exercise.
- Always put her needs first, but without coming off like a simp/beta, somehow.
- Buys her whatever she wants.

Realistic standards would be:
- Any height that isn't significantly shorter than her.
- Isn't too insecure or has realistic flaws.
- Has a job and can pay his own bills.
- Is relatively healthy, even if not in athletic shape, and at least weighs more than her.
- No history of abuse, cheating, crime, or STD's.
- Treats her well and respects her without disrespecting himself.

It seems like most women under 30-35 want the first set, and will only "settle" for the second set when they're too old.

But what do you think?