(SERIOUS) Do you find women who can kill attractive? Is that wrong?

[TomGarand]

I'd prefer answers to this question from other men, but lesbian/bi women can answer too.

And before anyone calls me a psychopath, the reason why I'm asking this is because my ex-girlfriend was a bit of a tomboy. One day, her father encountered a rattlesnake and almost got bitten by it, but my ex rushed in there with a machete and chopped its head right off, before leaving it to die (snakes can survive after being decapitated for an hour). And when I talked to her about it, she wasn't the slightest bit disturbed or upset. She said, and I quote, "Heh, that rattler had it coming."

Yes, I do find it attractive if a woman is willing to kill something/someone attractive. But it's not because I'm a mental case. I find masculine traits more attractive than feminine traits, and being willing to take a life is a masculine trait, in my honest opinion. Why? Because men are more likely to do it. Most hunters, warriors, and killers in general throughout human history have been men and boys.

It's not enough to know that a woman is physically capable of killing--being tall, muscular, armed, a skilled fighter, et cetera. Plenty of women who fit any of those criteria are feminine. She also has to be willing to do so. A woman who's too girly and nurturing/gentle to do that, to me, is a MASSIVE turn-off. And from what I've seen, a lot of women are too gentle to. But there are times when I think that finding a woman who's willing to take a life attractive is a bit extreme. Again, I like it when a woman is more like a guy than a girl. But is finding it hot if she is willing to kill something wrong? Also, does anyone here (preferably men) also find it attractive if a woman can do this? This is a serious question here! Do any other guys here feel the same way, and is finding this trait attractive wrong?

[Smoke-n-Growls]

I'm not sure about attractive, but certainly more intriguing and interesting, yes.

I've been the one to step in and steer away from danger (fortunately never had to actually get physical - I dunno if this dude had a gun or knife or anything) before.

Women with situational awareness and the ability and willingness to defend themselves and others are definitely more hot than cowards of any gender.

I'm lucky in that most of the women I'm friends with are the type who fit that. I tend not to make friends with people who are cowardly.

One caveat: if she's hellbent on murdering everything, that's not hot. What's hottest is when a woman knows she holds power, knows when to use it, but most importantly knows when her words and demeaour are enough to deal with a lesser threat.

But a rattlesnake? Yeah, behead that thing if it's about to bite. (I've never seen one not in a zoo, so I have no clue how to peacefully handle one...)

[TomGarand]

Which state to you live in? The rattlesnake incident happened either in Georgia or Florida.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Not a state. I live in Canada. We're more likely to run into cougars or bears where I live, but I've never had an incident.

Closest thing would be a coyote, but they're only really dangerous if you're walking a pet of equal or smaller size.

[TomGarand]

That explains why you've never seen one in the wild.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

I mean, I said as much, yeah.

[dawsonnata]

Have you ever thought about the possibility that you are simply gay?

[TomGarand]

How the hell am I gay?

[dawsonnata]

I just asked if you considered the possibility

[TomGarand]

No, I like women! What made you think I might like dudes?

[dawsonnata]

Just the way you described your liking towards tomboys and you don't like feminine things and you know the cut off a head of a snake

[TomGarand]

Just because a guy likes tomboys doesn't mean he's secretly gay.

[dawsonnata]

I just asked if you thought about the possibility is all. I have several gay friends. Nothing wrong with that

[TomGarand]

I don't have any problem with gays either.

[BeMuse]

Everyone has to eat every day… So sure, seeing a women that isn’t afraid to chop a fishes head off, pluck a chicken, shoot a deer, smash a rabbits skull in and skin it, etc. is a positive. I wouldn’t go so far as to say it turns me on, but it respectable. Often many girls in modern times in western society get all squeamish and want the guy to do all the heavy lifting, but they still like to eat meat when it comes to meal time. So when they are willing to take responsibility for it, that is nothing but positive.

[Kaneki05]

Not in the way your saying i wouldn't like a girl who just kills a snake like that. Snakes are cute...
If you were talking about a girl who could kill a human. Then yeah i would find that kinda hot.

[TomGarand]

I don't hate snakes either. I just found it hot that she could kill.

[modelUN242]

Wow, your ex is pretty bad-ass. I'd probably scream and run, and let my boyfriend or another man handle it lol. I do think being able to defend yourself from harm should be something that both genders should do.

And a guy to be attracted to a dominant woman instead of submissive seems unnatural because most guys aren't attracted to other guys. Same reason why girls shave their legs so they have smooth skin while the guy's is rough and calloused. I'm attracted to that aspect.

And women have to be nurturing and feminine because they're biologically equipped to raise children. You can't really have two men raising a kid or two women, as you can see the children of same-sex couples usually end up confused. One balances out the other, they both compliment each other.

[TomGarand]

"And a guy to be attracted to a dominant woman instead of submissive seems unnatural because most guys aren't attracted to other guys."

My nigga, EXPLAIN.

[modelUN242]

Masculine and feminine complement each other, it's just common sense that two masculines and two feminines wouldn't work. I'm just saying I never heard a guy preferring a dominant woman unless it was something like this. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MXr0_M-b88A

[magiusX26]

yes. it means she can defend herself if need be. its like how many women like a guy that can cook seeing as cooking historically has been viewed more as "women's work" and killing/hunting/fighting has historically been viewed more as "men's work".