I recently started dating an alpha female. Not sure why I attract them but I do. It is actually funny because on GAG I am really culturally controversial. There are some women who call me a misogynist or a woman hater. I am accused of "attacking women" in My Takes. But...I attract women like this woman. Feminist, artsy, hipster types who are independent and blunt.
One night we were spooning in her bed. At 2:30am someone banged on her door. The motion alarms went off. It isn't a good neighborhood with drug deals and such. It was my second time at her place and our second date. I was scared.
I thought about going to the window or the door just on pure male protective instinct. But she was this alpha female "Leave me alone women can do it too" type of chic. So I just laid there holding her and kissing her. She turned on her phone and saw the camera footage of some woman in a hoodie.
I just laid there. Didn't go to the door. This was her home. She was in charge.
The next day she wanted to have a "talk". She said that she was upset that I didn't answer the door. She said she didn't know why. We agreed to talk about it the next day.
She is white and I am black.
So, I thought about it. The next day I told her that I failed her. I said that men are biologically herders, hunters, and protectors. Women are biologically nesters. I told her I failed her as a man. I explained that was why she was turned off and wasn't attracted. Sure women are capable, I told her, but their biological instinct of attraction is for a man to be the protector and to be resourceful.
I know you are a feminist and this kills all libido for me, I said. I hope we can be friends. She just laughed and said that me coming over to talk and explain deep thoughts to her made her horny. She said she wanted to "rip my clothes off". We chatted more about gender over coughed. Then we fucked.
Feminist alpha males want men who play their gender roles too!